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Staying hopeful during the wait is so hard, isn't it? How long have you been TTC? We have been trying for 19 months. We had a miscarriage earlier this year which was devastating. I am starting clomid (first dose this evening!) first the first time this month. Hopefully sorts out my long/irregular cycle issue. And hopefully I can remain hopeful. Every time I get my hopes up they are dashed. Trying to stay positive without setting myself up for a fall. It's hard! Good luck to you :)

Hello, yes ma'am it is hard to stay hopeful after disappointment after disappointment. I've been ttc since last December and haven't been pregnant since 2008 when I miscarried, by the way sorry to hear about your loss. I took clomid in May then was put on femara June and July which clomid made me have side effects but gave me two good size eggs and femara gave me no side effects with one egg. This cycle I didn't monitor or trigger because I couldn't get off work to do so. I ovulate on my own anyway they were just trying to give me some extra boost. Honey I know what you mean it gets really hard being hopeful, seems like to me the more I try the more I fail. I just want to be a mother before I leave this earth lol. I wish you well in your journey of ttc hun, I know it's difficult but we will get a chance to be mothers.