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Stupid blue dye test. I'm going to get a FRER today. My SO just keeps telling me to wait but I want to know ! Lol

Rosiewilson.. oh I know how that is just wanting to know. If my DH only knew my testing habits he would think I’m crazy. I don’t even tell him. Although I never get faint lines haha I would have to see a pretty strong faint line to even think about telling him. Well if you do test today let us know. I hope you have better luck with pink dye. ????

Luv- yes full flow this morning. Up until last night I still had that bit of hope considering I had never spotted before. Oh well, deep down I knew AF was coming. I pretty much had already gone through the depression at 10 dpo when I was getting bfn’s, so I’m okay now and just ready to move on. Just like you I’m focusing on eating healthier and exercising. Specifically yoga and Pilates. Helps with my anxiety issues and relaxes me :)

I’m going to stay strong in this new cycle and only temp to confirm O and then stop. I will still use OPKs to make sure I O still on cd 20. Im going to continue to try for the rest of the year before I reach out to drs. They told me to TTC for rest of the year, so I’m going to listen. This will be my 4 th cycle TTC this year. I’ve never TTC consistently month after month enough, so there is no reason to think it can’t happen. Overall I’m always told I’m healthy so I will leave it at that. I think my biggest problem is timing bd with O, and that’s mostly due to mine and DH schedules.

Jrosie: I love your plan. And I believe the same with O. And when you think of it around ovulation is generally when we are most 'frisky' so its a big sign we should be getting busy. Now stress can kill that so being mindful of our environment is way helpful when it comes to taking it easy. Its hard for me to let stuff roll off or pick up a broom and clean some thing...hehehe But a peaceful mind and tidy home does help.
I am megga sorry your cycle is in full flow but behind you 100% with going strong until you have to see a dr which I hope doesn't happen. HUGS

Luv- you are so encouraging and say the most positive and nicest things. You are absolutely right. Thank you for sticking me through this journey.

I’m in a good place right now and ready to keep taking better care of myself. I really thought this was it this last cycle. This was the closest to bd and O we have had yet. Just 3 days before O rather than like 5 days before O. Now that I finally know when I O now, we should be able to get closer to that date. It’s taken 3 cycles for me to figure out when I O, geez... I have figured out that I O 2 days after that first positive OPK and that I O 2-3 days later than I thought. At least I’m learning much more about my body after each cycle that goes by. Maybe this is why they say it can take so long for couples to get pregnant for the first time. Cuz it takes that long to figure all this stuff out haha
Time to go shopping and indulge for my cd 1 day. Yay

Jrosie! Enjoy your indulging!!

Hey ladies. Super sick and on 1dpo I think. O came without warning and we lazily tried to bd. We might lazily go at it tonight and tomorrow but seriously.. I am so sick I think my body will melt away any chances of conception anyway. Just not in the mood. We are starting to search for a new home so pleasantly distracted and staying on top of healthy eating..ugh.

I do wish I had a crystal ball and could see the right property for us. My eyes are so tired of strolling down online property list. And my eyes hurt so bad from this cold that I usually fall asleep mid search..rofl.

How is everyone else doing?

Oh you poor thing. I’m so sorry you sick. I know what it’s like to feel icky and it’s time to BD. That’s what happened to me this past cycle on the day before O. I sure hope you start feeling better soon.
And The exciting life of searching for a new home, and the stressing life of searching for a new home lol good luck with that.

I’m doing pretty good, also focused on healthy eating and getting strong. It feels like a life time away before I O. I’m CD 4 and AF is pretty much gone, yay. Only 16 more days before I O lol

Luv I totally understand your need for a crystal ball on purchasing a new property. We went through 40 homes last summer before finding the one and it was exhausting!

I’m CD13 today and still no positive OPKs but I’m guessing I’ll get one either tomorrow or the next. Hubby and I have BDd a bunch so I’m feeling hopeful. This cycle I decided to try the diva cup out. Have any of you tried that before?

Hi all !

Wishing everyone lots and lots of baby dust.

I just had a CP and today is cd2.
We plan to take clomid, rupture injection and progesterone and hoping that Sept is our month...

Jrosie: Sorry, just now checking back in. Its like dawn of the dead over here. LOL..only 16 but you are right when waiting for O it came seem like a lifetime. Especially when you see ewcm but no positive opk. O is coming though and got everything on you two being in the same place for bding. I know i used to worry so much about when I O and what time my hubby would be home. Drove me batty. Now, Im like...whatever as longbas it is on my fertile window we'll be good. Hugs

Colie: 40 homes is so much! Yet, we will do the same until we find that perfect home for us. Not going to rush it. Yes, I tried the diva cup. I cant do any cups since having my daughter. My cervix is all ginky and turned up to the right. Makes having a cup in there very uncomfortable. BUT thats how I got pregnant with my daughter using a softcup. So I do believe in them. Hugs

Mrsshah: HUGS, hope you are doing alright. Praying this cycle and treatments brings about a healthy pregnancy and a bouncing baby in 9. One day at a time. :)