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Today is 14 days past our first IUI and of course I couldn't wait any longer so I tested this morning. The nurse who did our IUI told me to wait till Nov 19 to rule out false positives. We'll today I got a BFN so I called the nurses line at my fertility clinic and told them. She very coldly told me well its a negative so your not pregnant you don't have to test anymore just wait for your period to show up. Then asked if we'd like to do another IUI. I said I guess so and she said well call when your period comes abd well set it up ok. I know to them this is a daily thing but to me it was abrupt and harsh, maybe I'm over thinking. But it took everything I had not to cry. I'm wondering if anyone got a bfp after the 14 days? Or if they had negatives then got their positive? Also ladies who have had periods after failed IUI were they any different then your normal period? Just need some support right now completely heartbroken and feeling defeated and broken.

TTC #1 5 years
4 miscarriages
3 failed clomid/natural cycles
And now 1 failed IUI