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I personally think that's a great idea. Once our minds aren't so preoccupied and stressed over something that's usually when the magic happens. I know a few people who struggled to get pregnant or had numerous miscarriages with no child and once they let go and looked into adopting they got pregnant - a couple with twins!

i have had spotting today, due friday so if/when Af arrives I think ill log off & just give myself a month off...
its just getting to me now... a break will do no harm at all

Tracking ov and cm and bbt is fine, its when u turn every sneeze or cough or dry mouth into an automatic "I must be pregnant" frame of mind, that makes it harder on u when u arent. Over analyzing makes the fact that it didnt happen this cycle, a lot harder than it needs to be. I stopped that months ago and now I dont have that overwhelming feeling to cry when AF shows up...I look at it as one more cycle to get healthier and prepare my body for a baby, and I plan how I wanna run the next 25 days before O.

If u think logging off for good is what u need to make ttc better for u and the hub, go for it. Gotta take care of ur needs first.
Good luck to u!! =))

Yeah, I didn't become pregnant on my own until I refused to do a test or read anything into any symptoms. That's when it happened. And that's how they say it does - when you finally give up and just go about your business! So relax if you still have plenty of time. I'm 43. I didn't get that luxury but I started way late. (No regrets though. I enjoyed my freedom and have done all I wanted to do and have traveled the world. Time to grow up now I guess.)

I have also pretty much limited my time here to once every 2 weeks. I have started an excel file where I can track my BBT and FM, without having all this BABY stuff in my face. I agree, sometimes this site is just too much for me.

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I think sometimes it can make women go a bit mental and really really over think things some of the questions ive seen off women asking if its a symptom like sore feet, tingly fingers and most recently a bruise??? She found a bruise on her leg n asked if it was a sign it made me feel sorry for her really coz it just makes the disappointment of a bfn even worse. When i 1st tried none of these sites where around i never knew about temps, cervix positions n all that all i done was bd every night for a month and i got pg 1st time. Im not even ttc right now either i just think i might b pg an now im obsessed with symptoms , cp , cm n everything n all i done was google something n here i am so yeh i do think in the tww period its not a good thing but for all ladies who are tempting and keeping track of there cycles etc its brilliant.