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i didnt take any test over the weekend, i even had blue veins on boobs, DH said "what is that??" Today they are getting lighter fading away. Still no cramps or backaches. i am a mixed emotional wreak today as over the last days i was extremely happy. NO mood swings either. i just need AF to show up so i can move on to the next cycle.

@Beaut1ful38 oh I am so sorry! Fingers crossed AF doesn't show but I think we can usually tell once we get close to her showing up. I know how you feel and it's heartbreaking and it always feels like "how can i keep doing this every month?" but i think you're plan to just go on with preseed and OPK's is a good one! just enjoy yourselves over the holidays and go the old fashioned way. Wishing you the best on your next cycle!

@Dragonfly I hope that is your implantation as well! Keep us posted with symptoms or testing!

twwtoolong what is a beta? I hear you on the symptom spotting. I always say I won't get carried away and then i do and I drive myself crazy.

AFM I have my obgyn appt tomorrow. I don't know why but I fee a little nervous that they may find something wrong. Endometriosis runs in my family and I worry about PCOS. We'll see. Fingers crossed all looks good and we'll see what steps she thinks i should take next if this cycle doesn't work out

@Beaut1ful38. So sorry to hear that you might be out this cycle. I hear you in the not temping part. Wish I didn't temp today either. You aren't out until AF shows.

@Kattyfootballmomma. Keeping my fingers crossed that AF sympstoms stays away. When do you plan on testing?

@MidnightMystery. I am not sure if that has any affect on the cm. I agree with these cycles. Mine has been all over the place. I just wish it would stay consistent.

Having a loss of appetite with some minor cramps. Went to the bathroom to see if there was anything. Went pee and when I wiped there was nothing there. So, I remember Beaut1ful did a qtip test, well I don't have that here so just used toilet paper. There wasn't any blood but the cm was creamy and not watery. Hope that's a good sign but only time will tell. Just hope this is implantation.

Hey @beautiful38 your not out yet until the witch shows up! I with my son was ademant i was out even my cervix was hard very low and a tad open Then i done a test and was a bfp i couldnt beleive It because i kept feeling like AF was on Her way but she never did! Sending my love n sticky vibes to you! Xxx

@dragonfly i agree consistency would help wonders Right now! Your symptoms Sound promising got my fingers crossed for you, i Havent been posting much ladies as im at the start again so just lurking and sending positive vibes to all.

Question...when were waiting for two weeks to test itd called ttw what is the other two weeks called ttc? Lol sorry minds gone to mush xx

@Pearl_325. Thank you! I really hope so too as I totally agree with what you told Beaut1ful38. It is tiresome doing this month after month just to get BFNs. I hope your test goes okay tomorrow and that they find nothing. I will keep you posted on how things are going thoughout the day.

AFM. I should congradulate myself, normally my past cycles has thrown my anxiety through the roof. This month, I didn't stress (except when I was Ovulating) too much and sitting on the fence wondering if having another baby is the right thing or not.

@MidnightMystery. Symptoms? Am I missing something besides the drop in temp? . It's all good. Thank you! I hope you get your BFP soon. I like to think the first two weeks would be TTC as that is what we are trying to do (Conceive) then after Ovuations is the TWW where we wait and pull our hair out stressing on all the possibilities on the what ifs. That's my version.

pearl325- Thank You, i hope everything works out for you at the Dr tomorrow. You get nothing but good news!!!

MidnightMystery- haha yes your right, but i think this witch is around the corner!! TTC- trying to conceive. Best of luck to you!!!

dragonfly- I hope this is implantation for you. I would think that AF is still long away correct?

AFM, my DH has been so supportive today. He even planned a night out, just called and asked for a date that man is soooo sweet!!! I will still be around hoping someone get a BFP!!!

@MidnightMystery just saw your post about lube affecting cm... was it preseed that you used? If not, any other lube can prevent pregnancy and kill sperm. You may already know that but I just wanted to make sure... lord knows we don't want anything else hindering this already stressful process!

@katyfootballmomma- So what are your symptoms? When are you testing? Do you temp or opk??