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Hi, Amber!
Sounds like we are feeling pretty similar today. I honestly am starting to feel like I'm coming down with a virus or something as the day is going. Don't know if it's pg related or not. Although, I don't normally feel crampy and grouchy when I'm sick. Sorry to hear about your losses. I have not had to experience that yet, so I feel blessed. However, if I get pregnant now I'd be high risk with two LEEPs since 2010 and hospitalized with a pulmonary embolism last summer. Still praying hard, though! When do you plan to test?
~Summer

Hi Summer, i feel your pain on the high risk pregnancy. I am also a high risk as well since I lost a tube last year and with the miscarriage in Jan they are watching me closley. I dont think I wil test until next week when AF is due which will be next thursday. I had a D&C in January with the miscarriage and my AF seems to take longer to come. SOmewhere around 30 to 31 days and i used to be 28 days. When are you going to test? I dont think i have a flu or anything just feel like i did when i was pregnancy in October. Hopefully this will be our lucky month!

TTC is a rough time! Very very stressful. Lots of ups and downs emotionally as well. Staying positive, though! I plan to test on Mother's Day even though I'll only be 10dpo. Still a little early, but what the heck! Might as well :)

At 10 dpo you can try and might get your positive. Im only at 7 so i think I will wait a bit. With both pregnancy's I didnt test positive till about 5 days after AF was due.

Hey ladies,

So. Really weird thing happened today. I started bleeding a lot, but it only lasted about five minutes. Stopped completely. Like it never happened at all. What the heck? Anyone know what to make of that??

So so sorry Sarah :( I admire your strength and positivity!!

Hi Sarah - I'm so sorry but I have no idea what that means... You should call your doctor at the earliest possibility... They might be able to explain and may be prevent further bleeding...

Amber - so sorry to hear about your losses... And I have felt fatigued a little... But I've never been able to get pregnant so far... So my symptoms might not be the best to follow...

Momma - I tested at 10 DPO and it was BFN... Look every body is different and every case is different... I don't mean to discourage you but wanna prepare you to see a negative and not get disheartened... Now I for sure know it's easier said than done because I test and get depressed... It's just emotionally draining...
Anyway, keep posting

Today is 13 DPO for me... Tested in the morning and a big fat NEGATIVE... Almost screaming in my face... AF like cramps last night... I'm pretty sure AF is coming... I quite frankly want it to come now... Coz I'm completely drained emotionally and physically... I want to get back to my life!
I'm SO frustrated and definitely NOT going to the same doctor again... She can sugar coat things for all her patients but I'm not going to be one of them. I'm super angry at her.
I'm supposed to go for my beta tomorrow if AF doesn't come today... What a joke... How can a blood test change a BFN I saw today to a BFP... It'll be a waste of a trip (time and money)... So I'm really hoping now that I get AF today.

Ladies, sorry for sounding so negative... You probably can understand and relate to the frustration... Because I know no one else will... Not even my mother... She's the best person on this planet but she never went through what I'm gong through... So it's impossible for anyone else to feel this way.

I'll post my blood test results here or lack thereof.

Mother's Day bfp!! So thankful. Daddy is just as ecstatic. Couldn't fall back to sleep, so it's time to enjoy this rainy Sunday!! Sarah, the same thing happened to me last month. Bled heavy for only one day... It was weird.

Congratulations Momma! That's excellent news