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18 dpo - too nervous to test!

Hi all,

Last week I had a little bit of spotting for a couple of days, I thought it was my period starting but it stopped and my period still hasn't come, it was due on sunday, so I am officially late. I tested on sunday and got a bfn, but now I'm wondering what's going on because it still hasn't started.

I'm having a lot of whitish discharge and I can't stop eating, except for when I randomly feel nauseated occasionally, I have cramps every now and then, sometimes they feel like af cramps but other times they feel different, and I have been needing to pee a lot in the last couple of days, I am busting to go like seven times a day which is more than normal for me.

All of these sound like pregnancy symptoms but after that bfn I just can't bring myself to take another test because I don't want the disappointment. I know not testing won't somehow make me pregnant but I just...don't want to let go of the possibility I guess.

My husband was very disappointed by the bfn, but we ordered heaps of new tests online that are due to arrive in the mail soon, and he's dying to get me to use one again. I only have one test left until they arrive and neither of us wants to use up the last one.

I'm anxious and emotional and wish I could know what is going on. Was the spotting last week like a super duper light period or implantation bleeding? This "Am I" question is driving me insane.

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