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Spotting today @ 12 dpo
So confusing hope its not AF...

Had cramps all day in lower abdomen.
And in my legs.... Feels like that nasty witch is gonna
Show her face :( So confused my faint positives
had me so hopeful.

Don't stress, relax and try not to think about it until AF comes or hopefully, doesn't!

AF is here. So crushed. I thought for sure this was my month.

I had so many faint positives and on differant brands of tests.
Maybe a chemical?

I have such bad cramps. Getting ready for a period from hell.
Having a pity party for myself today.

Hope you ladies have better luck than me.

Sorry sweetie! There is another opportunity 2 weeks away! Don't fret :) It'll happen. As difficult as it is to not obsess, it really doesn't help our plight. We need to try and relax and enjoy the process. I am sure AF is heading my way as well. I am due today. I am trying to have this positive attitude for all of us.

Because I have only just begun trying and I'm already feeling down. It is not healthy and it'll only delay pregnancy.

Please ladies, let us support each other in being patient, as well as in trying.

Good luck and God bless to all, including myself :)

AF came for me too :(

Daisy, how are you?

Ready for a new start!
New month maybe a nice xmas suprise for us.
Its so hard not to obess after 3 years of trying I seem
to have created a weird OCD obession with the
testing I will actually miss it if I ever do become pregnant!

I just started trying Green and I can see how obsessions could begin.

Have you ever seen a specialist? 3 years sounds like you have been patient for a long time.

Nothing really wrong with either of us. We have been to urologist so far. In the new year we will take it farther if it does not happen for us. I ovulate each month and hubby has swimmers. Just need them to connect. Maybe we are trying too hard.

My husband is on Effexor (anxiety) and it has really gotten in way of baby making. He tried going off it for 3 months and it was hell for him. He is back on it but just doesn't take it the days I am fertile. Sorry if tmi but Effexor makes it hard for him to ejaculate. Add the pressure of TTC and its kinda a nightmare.
We have been learning as we go. This is also our second month doing at home insemination- as it is easier than BD for 2 hours and still no finish. Trying to keep it romantic still by BD first then doing the turkey baster method after.
Never thought I would resort to this but here I am.