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I'm in the same place...symptoms that could go either way. And two BFN (8 and 10 dpo). But this will be my first, if we got it this time.

Another BFN 11DPO. Starting to get discouraged.

I didn't test today, but I had some bright red spotting. AF isn't due for 2 days... Not sure what to think.

Rainer,

This is really interesting. We have almost the same schedules. I also think that my ovulation was 20 or 21 based on EWCM, but i am not sure. Our symptoms are also the same! Though the stabbing pain was only on my left breast, that happened 2 days ago just for 1 day.

Now my situation is all my symptoms are gone, except my breasts seem bigger and jogging is still not comfortable.

AF must be due in a few days for me, and i got a BFN yesterday, and i couldn't help it and i did an early test 2 days before that which of course was BFN too. I searched around and some people don't get BFPs as late as 21DPO...

Can you kindly keep us updated on what happens to you this month?? Baby dust to you!

I sure will keep you updated. Same for me about symptoms going away except sore boobs and still minor cramping. Cramping is the only symptom I remember from early pregnancy 17 years ago. My dumb 19 yo self didnt think I could be pregnant and I was cramping before AF, which I never do, so I remember thinking I must have cancer or something. Thats the only thing giving me hope. Good luck to you as well.

I have a question about your stabbing breast pain: was it really sharp? For me sometimes it would take my breath and I would find myself clutch my boob feeling like I needed to apply pressure to it.

Hi Rain, yes it was super sharp, and i clutched it too! haha. but it only happened 1 day, and for 3 days now i completely have no symptoms it's so weird, except last night i had a dream where i was vomiting and i woke up feeling like it, but i think it was just dream-related and not really feeling sick.

I hope we're not out! huhu :(

Me too. I got another BFN yesterday at 12dpo. It upset me and I am going to try to wait until after Friday when AF is due to test again. I cramped a lot yesterday and am cramping today too. I guess it may be AF but it is highly unusual for me to cramp before AF is here. Good luck to you.

I guess I am out. AF due today and still BFN. Oh well I am pretty sad, but I have one more month to try. If we don't make it this next month the timing will not work with some things that are coming up. How are you two?

So after having a very small amount of bright-red spotting on Tuesday, I had small amounts of brownish spotting on Wednesday and Thursday. AF was due Thursday (yesterday). Was really hoping it was implantation bleeding... But I'm seeing a bit heavier and redder stuff today. I know some women have implantation bleeding that is a bit heavier, so I may test again on Monday if this current situation stops fairly quickly. Otherwise, I'm out... :/