Community post

I am not afraid of the pain or HSG being unpleasant - I guess I am afraid/anxious of finding out what the next step for me will be. Either IUI or IVF

I get that, Basia. that all is clear!!

Danielle-- good luck on the closing! It's definitely stressful, but so is homelessness ;)

Danielle I think that having the house closing will help you .... When I conceived my first we were living in a camp trailer in a town 100 miles form home and work because my step-daughter was in the ICU following her accident... it was incredibly stressful. The one thing I am realizing now that was nice about that... I was so distracted by everything else going on that A) I wasn't over analyzing every little thing my body did B) I was busy enough I didn't realize I was waiting during the TWW... which is Torture now!

With my first I had bleeding on cycle day 20 which I just assumed was my period except it wasn't a period... just like bleeding. On CD 27 I opted to test and it was a very quick positive.

So here is hoping that Crazy busy distractions give you your much awaited

Thanks mriphenburg!

Thanks everyone!

According to FF I should have O'ed yesturday. But no EWCM or any other signs either...so I'll just keep BD' Til it happens. I'm not temping or using OPKS. My DH says let's just not prevent...so we will see :)

Where is everyone on their cycles?

CD #7, AF went away another week or so and I should be getting +OPK :)

Hello ladies,

I'm jumping over here from the April board. AF hasn't shown up just yet, but I'm 14 DPO and I got a BFN this morning.

For those of you that don't know me, I'm 27 and DH is 28. We have been TTC since May 2012. Everything is normal on his end and seems to be normal on my end. We are just another set of victims of the diagnosis "unexplained infertility". We went through 6 failed rounds of clomid and have seen one RE (that we didn't like) and are currently waiting to hear from a second RE's office for an appointment. We have had two chemical pregnancies and an early miscarriage.

Honestly, I have no idea where to go from here. I'm incredibly frustrated and tired of waiting for my turn to be a mommy.

Welcome scooby. Sorry you're still here :(

Best thing about AF starting? WINE. :) :)

DH got his SA results today... Kindof. The lady he talked to was less than helpful, and said something along the lines of his morphology "isn't as good as we'd like." So he has to not drink any alcohol for the next 4 weeks and come back. At first I was kindof freaked out, but then I read (on reputable websites) that "good" morphology is only about 4%, plus guys' sperm varies widely from day to day, so I'm not worrying about it yet. How bad could it be? :) gonna use some preseed this month to help the good ones reach their target better!!

Marcie... my husband also did that test few months ago and his morphology came at 4%.
We spoke to our fertility dr and he said that because his sperm count is high you can't really say that 4% is low.
You will find out on the internet that the norm is 14% but that depends where you did the test. Some places look at the sperm in crazy details and look for 'perfect' sperm and that is why those men will not have 14%...

Just so you know we asked the doctor if we can do something to improve that and he said that basically it is the environment that is causing it but taking supplement will not hurt. you will laugh but this is what he told us to buy 'Spurmax'

http://nutrafertil.com/spurmax.html

your case might be different but this is what my husband is taking

Also when I talked to my obgyn when we got the results first she made it sound like 4% is not good... but they don't really know how to interpret these tests

Yay Marcie! You did your first two days of temping lol!

How's everyone feeling this morning? I'm starting to get a little creamy CM so I know my body is getting into ovulation mode. Hoping I'll have a lot more CM this month.