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Hi mellou

First of all I would like to say really sorry about your losses x
I'm in the similar position as you i'm 39 and have 4 beautiful children ds 13 dd 11 dd 6 dd 3 and we are trying for our 5th, I have had 3 miscarriages and a chemical the first on was between my two youngest and then I have had another 2 miscarriages one last July and then fell pregnant in January but that ended up being a missed miscarriage, and the chemical last month it is very difficult sometimes but im waiting for a letter now for referral but I think I could be pregnant again im 8 dpo and did a test this morning and i think it had a super faint positive not to sure yet going to test again tomorrow. so I think im a bit like you never had a problem with all of my first pregnancies im just struggling now I don't know if its an age thing or something like that, just want to wish you and sending you lots of if you decide to test when will you x

Hi emz1974 , I'm so sorry for the losses u have had it's heart breaking , I hope this one sticks if u r pregnant , but I also think it might be a age thing hopefully we still have some good eggs left and can have healthy baby's , I'm so nervous but I'm gonna test in a hour or so they only had digital which I'm not very confident about but that will have to do I'll keep u updated ,, have u done another test or u gonna just wait a few days , wishing u the best of luck and baby dust

I am so sorry for your loss and I understand where you are coming from!
We tried for many years , finally got pregnant and miscarried on 17 aay.
We did try again like dr said during fertile week but now I am scared to get pregnant again and worry about this happening again.
It is such an odd feeling after wanting it so bad.

hi ladies

well I've had another chemical started bleeding today tests only got really really faint lines on them so can't wait now to get my appointment now and hopefully they can do something to help because I don't have a problem getting pregnant its just keeping it that's the problem.

well good luck and sending lots of your way

I'll keep you updated

xxx

I think it helps to have others who can relate. I've been trying to read about ways to improve implementation success. What a range of emotions! You're not alone.

MandyMe - Try taking a daily B6 supplement (over 50 mg). There have been studies done that shows it helps with implantation and staying pregnant. I swear the only times I have gotten pregnant and stayed pregnant were when I was taking a B6 supplement! I would also then keep taking it afterwards for a couple of weeks, just because I was afraid something would happen if I stopped.

I'll put that on my shopping list today. Any particular brand?