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I give up, it's too hard
I've decided today after almost 18 months that I give up. I'm feeling so down and depressed about the whole ttc and it's making me so sad, I can't do it any more. I did manage to get pregnant twice last year. One was a chemical the other ectopic and it's just too hard. So I've made the decision that I can't put myself through the heartbreak and disappointment any more. I wish all of you out the best of luck, you're stronger women than me xxxx
7 Replies • 10 years ago
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I really understand what you feel. We have such a similar story. Me, like you been trying for almost 2 years with 2 miscarriages. I had several depression episodes because i really couldn't handle the feeling so we took a break often if we feel it too much. Don't give up, just take a break and go back to the board!
Good luck!
10 years ago
My husband wants me to go for counselling because he doesn't think i'm coping with the aftermath of the ectopic. I just don't think talking to a stranger will help. It's different with people who have been or are going through it, but I couldn't have someone telling me what I need to do or feel when in reality they don't know how hard it really is. I think a couple of months off to get my head together and start again
10 years ago • Post starter
butterfly, it sounds like a break will do you good. Also, a good counselor would never tell you what to do or feel but would help you work through or process your emotions. They're there to listen and support you. Take time for yourself, focus on your relationship and being healthy. Yoga is great to help with creating positive energy too.
10 years ago
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