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Yes it is prob the pressure. It's called anxiety performance. It may be that. It's just knowing he for sure needs to be able to perform right then to get you preggers. Instead of just happening when it happens. He's prob just thinking too hard about it which makes it not work sometimes.

my husband had similar issues. and it seemed to always only creep up when I was ovulating! The last time this happened we had a good heart to heart about it a few hours after the incident -- it really did help for both of us. He was basically reading too much into what I was doing, and was put off if he thought I wasn't into it or not enjoying it! I explained to him that by him doing that he was putting alot of pressure on me too and then blaming me for putting pressure on him?! He understood, and we've been fine since. Good luck and enjoy the process :)