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ugh, I'm so sorry you're in this boat, too @Mistique. It really is frustrating that they just cant get how crucial timing is during this whole journey. I can accept not getting a BFP because it just didnt happen, physiologically. But its enraging knowing its because my H just cant suck it up and come to the party when he needs to! Good luck to you. Lets try and stay positive! Anything is possible. And if not, then I think some real 'come to Jesus' talks are in order for next cycle!

I worry about bf not wanting to either! He is hardly ever in the mood. Not sexual at all. If he has anything bothering him its out and with a 2yr old, he will only do it if she is asleep. I try for a quickie when shes busy watching peppa but he wont. It's so frustrating!

@Neomaise, Mistique & Kelliria. I was in the same boat as you ladies. Timing is everything and I used to get so depressed if we didn't dtd and always thought I missed it. In January, we only did it CD 7, 11, 13, & 15. With the estimated O day of CD 16. It is very hard to time it around a little child as we were only able to do it when she was sleeping or we snuck to the back porch (funny I know) while she was busy playing with her toys in another room. Anything is possible and hope you ladies get your BFP.

Yes, I'm going to try stay positive, maybe it will lead us to BFPs. 2dpo today and hubby has gone back to work for 4 weeks. May be I will have some news for him when he gets back

for us all!!!

Think I got my positive opk tonight... posted on my page, what do you think? May get a little darker tomorrow. I BD’d just now just in case. I’m on CD11

I tested again this am and it looks darker! And today my bf and I are home because of snowstorm (we work together) so we can BD and hopefully catch the egg!!????????????????

Question though... I don’t have much EWCM right now... I Usually do, so I’m thinking maybe from BD’ing every day I’m a little drier but when we BD and I get excited it def gets wet (sorry if TMI). The lack of CM is the only thing worrying me this cycle...

We DTD 6 days in a row. We should again today since I just got positive opk, right? I get confused about the positive opk. Does that mean I’ll ovulate within what time frame from that

Thank you calvingirl! Just tested again and it’s even darker now... so crazy! BF is in the shower now then I’m gonna initiate lmao. I don’t have any preseed. Hopefully there’s enough there from last few dYs and today and tomorrow that it’ll do the trick!

I'm only 3DPO and already desperate to start peeing on things I know there's no point yet, and I don't have the greatest feeling about this cycle. But I'm a POAS addict

I found this though and it's been reassuring to know there's still a good chance with having DTD 2 days before O.

That is very reassuring @Mistique. Praying so hard this is it! And thanks, @Dragonfly23...timing is hard, but i think 2 days out from Ov is still a good chance- the power of positive thinking!

Question for you ladies: do you do anything different around the time of suspected implantation (6-11 dpo) to prepare your body for a successful implantation? I've read some ladies drink a lot of tea to keep their uterus warm, eat spicy foods, quit alcohol (just in case). Just wondering if anyone has any tricks up their sleeves!