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I know exactly how you feel this is the 7th month TTC for me, makes you think something is wrong you.. and its never going to happen, I just feel even more sorry for the people trying longer than I and those who cant conceive at all. :/

I am sorry you feel this way. I know how frustrating this whole process is - we have been trying for over 2 years with one miscarriage at 9 weeks and 2 chemical pregnancies. Others often don't know what to say when they learn about fertility struggles so the phrase "relax, it will happen" continually gets regurgitated. It's no comfort to us. But do keep in mind that many that seemingly become pregnant without effort had their own struggles to endure, we just don't know about it. Who really wants to talk about miscarriage and visits to the reproductive endocrinologist?! To sum it up, life is full of struggles and this manifests itself differently for different people. Some have financial issues, others have emotional and physical problems, there is no end to the list. As soon as we acknowledge that we live in a fallen world and that Christ is the sunbeam that brings light into our darkness we will find relief and hope. Praying that you will be blessed soon.

So true, when you are TTC it seems like everyone is pregnant, just been pregnant and babies everywhere.