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TTC but DH won't BD - feel like it's a lost cause

Don't know all the abbreviations to make this a hot topic. DH and I have been together for 5 years. I have 3 sons from previous marriage, he has 1 son from previous relationship. We decided 2 years ago, that we would try for that little girl. Well, it's hard to try when he has no interest in being intimate. I understand it's his medicine, but I feel like it's a lost cause. I chart my temp, I keep track of my cycles, I also keep track of when I ovulate . I try almost anything to get hiim in the mood when I know I'm fertile. He tries but nothing happens for him. It's not like we don't have children because we do - just not one together . Doctor says I'm on a timeline. Due to have hysterectomy 2014 if no pregnancy since I have too many cycle problems. Anyone else going through this same problem? If so, how do you cope?

April 30, 1998 - 8lbs. 11oz, 21 inches 9 week miscarriage - March 17, 2001 May 31, 2002 - 6lbs. 15oz, 20 inches October 2, 2003 - 7lbs. 3oz, 20 1/2 inches Praying for a EDD September 29, 2014

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