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Reply by tiredofwaiting2013 » Apr. 7, 2012 7:17pm

Awww.. I'm soo sorry too hear that AF showed up Wilsonc, as for the Dolphin, don't worry about it yet. It aint over until the comes to town..

I have tried something similar to pre-seed (zestica) and to be honest BF, didnt like it to much. To slippery.. However; with the soy isoflavones, I have my own supply of cm

Sorry it took a while, I was away on a little vacation with BF to celebrate our 5th anniversary ... .

I'm officially in the TWW with horrible prometrium side effect.. I feel pregnant although I may not be... It sucks that I can't rely on any symptom at this point.





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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 7, 2012 8:53pm

Well af showed her ugly face today. It is very light and I imagine it is from the clomid as the last few months have been light and short with the normal amount of cramps. So I will have to call Monday morning to get in for an appointment.

Glad to hear you had a good vacay Lisa!

We are back at it again Wilson! Anything new you are trying this month?

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Reply by mela0054 » Apr. 9, 2012 11:46am

Wow Ladies!! I am so happy that I found this Forum. My DH have been TTC for over 2 year and we have had 5 rounds of clomid, 3- 50mg and 2- 100 mg. No BFP ever. I am starting to give up hope and I don't know how many more ultra sounds I can go through. I sometimes feel like a lab rat.
I had the worst Easter Sunday ever because my brother and his wife (who he knocked up by accident and then had to marry) was taking about the baby they are expecting and I wanted to scream because my AF showed up that morning! I feel terrible about it because not being able to fall pregnant is affecting my relationship with my brother and his wife. I just get so upset when I have done everything right but, still no baby. UGH! Thank you for letting me vent and I wish you all BABY DUST!!


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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 9, 2012 12:52pm

Welcome Mela! Sorry you have to be here but this thread has been a great one to be a part of. I too have done 5 cycles of clomid. Not really all that fun! I am surprised I have any blood left in me! I hate the accidents that occur around me. It makes me very upset to know how much I want a baby and than see someone who doesn't want one get pregnant.

AFM My doctors appointment went ok this am. My cyst is gone which is great! It has hung around for too long! I actually got a better period starting yesterday morning too which hasn't been the case for the last 4 months. Wasn't fun to realize it during Easter mass, but good to see it getting back to normal! They are also switching me to fermara to see how that works.

Anyone else have good news or any news for us?

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Reply by mrsbaurs » Apr. 9, 2012 12:55pm

No news here. Looking at my temps, it looks like I didn't ovulate this month so I am just waiting on AF. Hoping I will start soon so that I can have somewhat of a normal cycle of temps before my doc visit 5/2.

Welcome Mela.

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 11, 2012 4:07pm

hey sorry been busy atm, i spoke to my doctor on tuesday about my day 28 blood work she said my progesterone was low again but did say looking at my day 21 results all my hormone levels pointed to me ovulating last cycle, she has referred me to a gynaecologist for further testing as she still feels something isn't happening for us and wants to help get to the bottom of it i was so happy to speak to her on tuesday as the last doctor i saw didnt really explain my results properly
I think for this month i will get clear blue ovulation kit and try pin point exactly when i am ovulating, will speak to dh about preseed see how he feels about using that

welcome Mela0054
i was happy i found this forum too :) made some good friends and now have people to talk to about my ltttc journey has made it a little easier
i can relate to the unplanned pregnancies i have heard of so many and think how unfair

hey dolphin1204
sorry to hear af showed her face, did u arrange for another appointment

hey mrsbaurs, hope af doesnt show for u fingers crossed

hey lisa1981 how was the mini vacation :)
i was thinking the same with preseed but i will speak to my dh about it see what he thinks
i hate the tww u never know if the symptoms you get are just in your head, fingers crossed for you this month lisa

baby dust all round :)

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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 12, 2012 4:29pm

Any news on AF mrsbaurs?

Wilson OPK's are something that I wouldn't TTC without. They give you a wealth of information thats for sure. Along with charting your BBT. I hope that they work well for you! Also like I have said in the past preseed is a must for us once we tried it. I would strongly suggest trying it out at least. But I would also suggest trying a smaller amount than they suggest on the box and seeing how it works for you.

I have a monitoring appointment on Tuesday and they changed me from Clomid to Femera since I have been on clomid for a while and we weren't really getting any where. So far femera has been good. No hot flashes which has been nice! So now just waiting on next weeks appointment and to O for me!

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Reply by mrsbaurs » Apr. 12, 2012 4:33pm

My temps are up. Looking at my chart, I probably ovulated Monday. What do ya'll think? I just assumed I didn't ovulate this month. We haven't BDed in a while so this month is out. I guess I should expect AF in about 2 weeks if I did ovulate.

On to the next month! Hope everyone else is having better luck.

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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 13, 2012 8:41am

Mrsbaurs I think it looks like you could have ovulated that day. This is your first month charting correct? Have you found out anything new that you didn't know before?

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Reply by CountryStrong09 » Apr. 14, 2012 3:09pm

May I join you ladies?
Im Whitney. Im 20 (21 in 2 days. Woohoo). Iv been activelly TTC since September 2011, but I have been "trying by not preventing" since September 2010. This is my 9th cycle actively TTC and Im currently CD 6 and AF is on her way out the door! Iv had 2 loses. The first was October 2008, and the second was March 14th this year.
Id really love someone to talk to who understands how I feel!


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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 14, 2012 4:44pm

hey dolphin1204
i agree im going to get opk's and start keeping notes on that too for when i get my gynaecologist appointment hopefully the more info i have for them the better
im going to order preseed on monday
thanks for the tip

thats gd the ferema is working better for u, and hope all goes well with your appointment :)

hey mrsbaurs, not so gd u dnt seem to be having much luck this month
i find it hard to get time with my dh at the moment as his son is living with us full time now
if not this month for u very best of luck for next month babydust :)

welcome CountryStrong09
so sorry to hear about your 2 losses :( i have never fell pregnant myself but i can imagine how heartbreaking that must be for someone
me and my dh have been trying over 2 years now and thats me jst starting to get help with things from my doctors
since i joined this forum i have found everyone i have spoke to very understanding and helpful, its always nice to have someone to talk to who knows what you are going through
keep us up to date and if u ever need to talk we are here
baby dust :)

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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 16, 2012 1:28pm

Welcome CountryStrong. I am sure you will find some support and help from this board. I know I have and it seems as though others have as well.

Wilson good idea on having everything ready for your appointment. I really wish I would have been more prepared a year ago when I went for my 1 year work up. Now we are nearing our two year mark (April 26th) and I feel like we have hardly gotten any where...

AFM I am dreading the next 2 weeks as it will mark 2 years TTC. Plus we have a lot of pressure on this cycle as we will be taking a few month break before trying again. Lots of pressure for us!

So I have another "FUN" pregnancy story. A friend of mine from college never really seemed to be the type to want children and frequently talked about not really wanting them. Well she got married about 4 years ago and now they have two with a third on the way! She youngest will not even be a year before she has the third! Uggh!! I really wonder somedays why some people are blessed with three and I don't have any take home babies...

Ok ran over! On to more positive thoughts for the next week which will be O week! Wish me luck!

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 16, 2012 3:36pm

hey dolphin, yep im glad im thinking ahead for when i get word of an a appointment i will b on a waiting list atm bt until then i will keep on trying and hopefully get an appointment soon, been tempted to speak to my parents about it all but i dont want to worry them as i know they really want grandchildren

i hope everything goes well with this cycle for u before u take a break
best of luck lots n lots of baby dust for u :)

i know how u feel about hearing of people with so many kids tbh i would be happy with just 1 well id be over the moon more like with 1 happy healthy baby :)

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Reply by redshadoe0 » Apr. 17, 2012 2:26pm

Holy crap, story of my life too. It's been 2 years for us as well... last october figured out I wasn't ovulating due to PCOS. So I started Clomid. Got preggo right away... promptly lost the baby RIGHT AFTER I'd gotten done telling the world. Next round of Clomid a few months later when AF showed back up... preggo again... didn't tell to many people though this time and good thing... ANOTHER miscarriage. And meanwhile my closest friends and enemies are just popping out babies left and right. It totally kills me... hubby says the same thing "it will be our turn" but I'm not that patient. This is ridiculous. It shouldn't be this hard. If people that can't afford to raise a child can pop out one after another, why can't I keep just *1* of mine :( *sigh* You're totally not alone.

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November 2011 First round of 50mg Clomid.
December 22 !!!
January 1 2012 m/c @7 weeks
- Clomid 50mg round #2 Feb 2012.
21 day progesterone level at a 3
!!! Another m/c at 5 weeks
- Clomid 100mg April - June epic fail
- July Femara/Ovidril It worked!!!
- Sept - .... lost a genetically healthy baby boy

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Reply by mela0054 » Apr. 17, 2012 4:00pm

I agree with you dolphin! I don't understand how it can be so easy for others and so hard for us. :(

I have been fighting the jealousy thing as of late and I don't like feeling this way. Yesterday I went out for my friend's birthday and one of our friends is pregnant. I got through the night but, when I got home I started to cry. I wish all of this would stop and we could just get our BFP!!!

Redshade, My DH says the same thing. I guess they have to so we can have someone to cry on.


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Reply by mrsbaurs » Apr. 17, 2012 4:05pm

I keep hearing that our time will come. I went to a baby shower Sunday. My friend had a baby a month ago and they waited to have the shower after the baby was born because they didn't want to know what they were having. So to make matters worse, the baby was there and I got to hold him. I just wanted to cry because I want a baby so bad. I just looked at him while I was holding him and I thought about how much I wanted a baby. I hope our times come soon! I'm still waiting on AF so hopefully she will show sometime this weekend since I did actually ovulate this month, just late. I'm ready to start the next cycle.

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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 19, 2012 10:14am

I often think about talking to my mother about this as well wilson. She knows about my ectopic as I neede her help a few days while DH was away. But she dones't know our whole story.

Welcome redshadoe0. Yeah it is nice to hear other stories and realize your now alone. I wish you didn't have to have this journey but again it is nice to have others to talk to that you can relate to. Your story sounds a lot like my first two rounds of clomid BFP only to end with no baby. I constantly ask when will I have suffered enough?

mela0054 I have had similar experiences myself. Never fun! I always tell myself keep your chin up, cry if you have to, but choose to move on. My emotions are usually all over the place from week to week month to month. Sometimes things really get me and other times I try to be above my emotions.

mrsbaurs I would like to punch in the face of the "our time will come" people. Really? Don't you think I have already thought about that. During my ectopic pregnancy a friend gave birth to a baby boy and I refused to go up to the hospital to see him. I waited about a month until I actually say/held him. Sometimes you jsut need time and I think that is ok.

AFM I had my 2nd monitoring appointment on Tuesday. It went well. One mature on the left which was 20mm. That is a whole lot better response than my last clomid cycle. I took the ovidriel shot yesterday AM and was cramping and having sharp pains yesterday. They told me to wait to BD until tonight but we did last night and will again tonight, tomorrow morning, and tomorrow night. I think I may have ovulated already though. I just have this feeling... I also came down with a wonderful cold starting Tuesday night so on top of having ovulation pain and having to give myself a shot I am sneezing and coughing and blowing my nose like crazy. I apoligized in advance of BDing to my DH if I sneezed mid BD.. UGH! Never can catch a break can I! But it usually makes us laugh to think about how much we get dumped on our plate at any given time. I try to find the humor in it all.




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Reply by Angel20 » Apr. 20, 2012 11:58am

hi wilson,
i know how you feel i'm feeling depressed too lately having a fight with my DH about having a baby he thinks i'm getting obssess about thing becoming pregnant and he keeps telling me that God is the only one whose capable of giving us kids, which is true but we need i little help here hun!
after 1 day of arguing finally i convinced him... now all we have to do is pray a lot and hoping this vitamins that were taking will improve or give us heaps of chances to have a baby



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Reply by tiredofwaiting2013 » Apr. 24, 2012 8:37pm

hi Dolphin, Wilson and everyone else :).

Wilson: in reply to your question, the mini vacation was greeeeeeeeat. So much fun except no bd'ing so again.. AF showed up.. I should be used to her by now, its been over 46 cycles loll. Tell me... whats new and exciting with you??? You mentioned the pre-seed, did you try it??

Dolphin: how did the doc appointments go (I'm pretty sure you posted about it but I'm feeling lazy, loll).

I havent been reading posts in a while, sorry, stress at work made it difficult for me to concentrate. I work for the Canadian Federal Government and they are going trhu massive lay-offs and well, the stress of not knowing if you are going to lose your job or not can throw you off a little.



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Reply by mrsbaurs » Apr. 24, 2012 8:40pm

AF showed up Sunday so just starting the next cycle! Hopefully this one will work out. I go to the girl doc next Wednesday for my annual exam and will talk about some fertility stuff. At least I now have 1 full cycle of temping to take with me.

How is everyone else doing?

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