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@ dragonfly23 - Honestly not conceiving was harder this cycle then all the rest. I had this feeling that we didn't conceive and I fear that I will have that every cycle. I just don't know what it feels like to be pregnant so waiting for symptoms is hard. I've cried more this time around and DH is sadder too. He's starting to worry about our fertility and we've talked about the steps we'll take if we don't conceive after 12 cycles. I'm prone to tears as it is so I've been trying not to think about it and we'll focus on our fertile week next week. My whole family is going on vacation next week except for me and DH as he couldn't get the time off. That means we will have little distractions and can focus on our selves next week which will be good for baby making!

kelliria- how far along are you now? how are you feeling??

K8mcm88 - I'm am absolute needle-phobe but have heard so many great things about acupuncture for fertility!

Neg OPK today (CD21). I was so sure today would be O day. But not complaining means we can get more BDing in

Thanks everyone for your advise!!!! I am a complete needle phone also, so I had quite a lot of anxiety at the beginning of the session but it eased off. She seems to think I'm too cold to have a baby!Haha! Kind of makes sense though, I'm quite small and always have layers on and very poor circulation so feet and hands are constantly numb. So she has given me a mix of Chinese herbs to start taking and I've to go back in 3 days for more accupunture.

Flamingogirl I'm with you. Some months hit you harder than others, it can be hard to pick yourself up at the beginning of a cycle and remain positive. This is my 16th cycle and it certainly doesn't get easier. I have every faith will get there in the end though - positive thoughts your way!!!! Xxx

Hey everyone So I’m definitely out for a December baby, moving on to TTC cycle 10 This past month’s cycle has been crazy to say the least. So, I need all of your secrets.. new supplements to try, anything will help! I take prenatals now, but I think I want to start hubby on something too. Anyway, good luck to you all! Lots of

Hey ladies! I am in my fertile week ( one app says) and the other says in 2 more days! But we have been going at it every other day!! I temp every other day we don’t BD bc I’m not sure if I want to use opk as it stresses me out. Just going with the flow. Based on temp every other day I think I can confirm O day as this is our 9th cycle so I know my body pretty good now. But I have my opk on stand by!! Maybe if I feel ovulation pains inwill end up taken one.

On another note: my onesie I bought I have been holding it and praying for my rainbow baby every morning. I am a women of Faith.

Flamingogirl- I could say I know how you feel but we all go through this differently. As I was sad all the way up to our BFP . Now that this is our 2 cycle after loss I’m more ok with it but as month go on I’m sure my emotions will change. Keep positive and stress free.

Kelliria- Thank you for the positive vibes!

Hope to see some

Mistique, i am only 5w4d. I found out 2w ago today. I am so nervous i havent even told bf. I will wait til after 10w to make sure everything is ok. My mmc happened at 7w so i want to clear that and definitely want to hear hb first. Oh, my 2yr old knows but she doesn't quite get it. Lol.
If you don't mind me asking, how long are your cycles? What day do you normally O on?

K8mcm88, i was going to try it but bfp came first. I am considering accupuncture now during pregnancy. I heard it can be very beneficial. Do you feel any better or relaxed or happy since you did it? Being cold does make sense. I always have a low body temp. Bbt always 96.2ish and waking temp around 97. Never has been 98.6 even as a kid. Never got pg (or used bc) until 35. I started eating healthy and juicing. I think that helped a lot. Keep me updated on the accupuncture. I am very curious to see how it goes.

Babybyrd, here is what i did. It's a lot. Lol.
Clomid (50mg)
Pre-seed (clomid can dry you up)
Softcup
Vit b complex
Baby asprin
Prenatal
Co q10
Royal jelly
Red maca
Have vitex but never got to use it. Had one month of clomid left and cannot take the 2 together. Good luck to you! Hang in there and

Hi everyone, how are you all doing?
I was just wondering if anyone else has had what I just did last night?
I had the most vivid dream I was about 3-5 months pregnant going to ultrasounds, doctors and also just going about my days as usual, it was so real. This isn't the first time I've had a realistic dream the first on was a fair few years back when I dreamt I had twins and was in the birth centre and even named the boy and girl twins, all family was there, its just really weird.
I'm a bit spiritual and believe dreams that are remembered in the morning mean something, but unsure as to what last nights dream was about as I know I'm out this month, as we didn't time sex very well on fertile days, but as it stand AF hasn't arrived yet...
little confused to say the least....

YAY SMILEY! (CD22) BD yesterday and the day before. A friend is watching the kids for us today and we are going on a date, will probably come home and BD before i go get the kids too

Kelliria - I have an 8 month old, AF returned 3 months PP. Cycles have been anywhere from 22 to 36 days, the last 2 have been 30 days with O on CD21. I thought that I was getting a little more regular, but who knows!

Winnie- I definitely believe dreams can tell us things. We weren't trying for our second, I wasn't even late. But I had two separate dreams about getting BFPs, I bought a test grocery shopping that day and did an afternoon test and it was SO dark. I wouldn't have even thought about testing if I hadn't dreamed it!