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Really need somebody to talk to :(
Hiya anyone that reads this , a lil about me , we've been trying to concieve baby num 2 for 9 months with no sucsess, I have a 2yo and when I was pg with her I had 'implantation bleeding' I have a 28 day cycle and I'm due on tomorrow , ( the 28th ) on sat 22nd I had some brown spotting that lasted a few hours and only when wiped along with mild cramping,been having hot flushes ,headache and rather moody and a few days ago a feeling of an uti ( that has gone )I tested neg this am , since yest morn have had very hot throbbing breasts ( this is out the ordinary before af is due) will this ever happen for us?I'm now so depressed at the fact that when I wake up in the morn af could be there ,I generally get cramps 3 days running up towards af but I haven't had anything , but its still the fact that tomorrow is 'the day' :( sorry for rambling girls , but I needed somebody to talk to .. Sometimes I just think some men don't actually get how frustrating and confusing this can be for us x
8 Answers • 12 years ago
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Well you're having some different and unusual symptoms this month, so that may be good news, right? :)
We've also been ttc no. 1 for 8-9 months now, and I must say, I'm getting a little impatient too. How does it seem to happen so easily for those accidental pregnancies and when you really want one it takes so long sometimes! Weird.
Besides, testing before AF is even due may show negative even if it's positive, remember? :) I know we can get impatient with the testing, hehe.
Good luck with your next test! xx
12 years ago
Thank you for replying , I know your right about testing before af is due, i soppose it isn't over until she shows! If af doesn't come tomorrow I've promised not to test again until monday, let's see if that happens ;-) , I really hope we both get our beautiful positives soon , xxx
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Hey doll, I soooo Feel ya, Iv been TTC #2 for 2Yrs with no sucess, after being on meds to regulate me every 28 days (wich have worked) Im currently 2wks late w AF and have had every text book symptom (alot like your discribing) they tend to get more intense in the morning and at night, I was almost 9 wks when I got a BFP with my daughter, Im currently still getting BFN as of 4 days ago, so Im going for a Blood test Monday, there have been times in the last 2yrs that all Iv felt like doing is giving up, espeacialy when EVERYONE I know has been pop'n out babies right and left, and I agree men just dont get it, I cant tell you how many times my husband has walked in on me being a blubbering mess bc all I want is another baby (I love being a mommy) If you ever need to chat Im always willing to listen :) *hugs and tons of babby dust
12 years ago
Hey Candice , I really feel for you , you must be a very strong woman! I know how the blubbering mess usually works also! Your living proof that it can take some time to get that positive, you give us all hope! And I bet its frustrating being late and not having an answer but also uplifting to know yourself that it can take some time,I'm just so dreading tomorrow.. This is the only cycle I've felt like its not in my head! Especially the sore boobies! I know every cycle can be different so I'm trying (failing) to be optimistic with this ,it isn't over yet :p .. I hope this is your month! Sending lots of positive thoughts your way for monday and lots of babydust! Xxx
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Hi ladies..I am no where near as far as you guys in my cycle and have only been trying for a few months but I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I just said a prayer for each of you. I wish you all the best and I just know that you will get it soon! Prayer, baby dust and positive energy sent your way NOW!! :)
12 years ago
Thank you for all your replies! Well this is a little update , I am due af today and as of yet it hasn't arrived and don't feel like it is arriving either ! I couldn't resist and took a hpt, it looked neg at first so I put it to one side for a few minutes like 5 mins , there be the faintest faintest second line there , not gettingg excited just yet, as its barely visable to the eye ! But its there ! Have one more test left , so going to take it in the morning and hope for something a little clearer :-) inside I'm dying to scream with joy ! But my head is saying waiiiitttt hehe! Anyways will let you girls know in the morning what answer I have :D !! Bby dust an pos thoughts to all you ladies xxx
12 years ago • Post starter
Congrats KimberlyChick!!! FX for darker line! Im 10 dpo and fighting the temptation to test early! i hope i can hold out till mon when af is due too! @ least i will be 13 dpo and more likely to get a positive!! Im so low on
patience, that is one thing im being taught through the experience of ttc, you cant rush something good!! Definetly worth the wait but so nerve rattling!!!
12 years ago
Hey! I know .. Aren't we all low on patience :D its a cruellll 2week wait hehe ! Well I tested again this am and it seems to be a negative :( yesterday I tested and it must of been an evap or something .. Little bit sad but af still hasn't arrived ! So I'm hopeful still.. And my boobies are still really sore ! Hope you get good news on monday hunny !! Xxx
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