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Very sorry for ur loss!!
I wasn't in the same situation as u so I'm pretty sure my answer wont be very helpful. When I had my loss at 7wks (not very far, I know), I carried on trying as soon as I got my cycle. The way I view it, and this may seem harsh to some, is to move forward and carry on with my life. I try my best not to dwell on the past becuz I'm not there anymore, and I can't change it. I try to also view the positive side of it all. Something was wrong with my babies and my body did what it was supposed to. I can't fault it for that.
Like I said, most likely not helpful to u. I have a different way of dealing with things than most women. It doesn't mean I didn't care, I just care enough about me that I won't dwell on what I can't change. This is in no way an insult to u, sorry if it comes across that way.
Best of luck! U'll know when it's right for u! =))

Sorry for your loss,

I can only say you will know when you are ready. My very first pregnancy I loss at 6 weeks and was devastated but, did not stop TTCing and was successful 3 months later. My last pregnancy which ended in a MC at 18 weeks (tramatic delievery at home) I needed to take time off from TTcing to heal mentally and physically. I knew it was for the best and ended up taking a year off (it was not a conscious decision). Hubby and I just went with how we were feeling and a year just flew by. In january we felt ready to start TTCing again we feel balanced physically, mentally and emotionally.