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One miscarriage and no BFP since. New to this. Suggestions and/or possible causes welcome.

My husband and I were married in July...and I miscarried in September at 4.5 weeks. It was our first attempt at trying. I guess that gave me a false sense of how easy it would be to get pregnant.

Since then, we have tried unsuccessfully for three consecutive months (assuming I start my period in Monday). I know that's not long, but I'm going to be 39 in June. So, I know this is time sensitive.

I think that I ovulate on day 10 or 11 of my 28-day cycle. (I think this because that is when I have all the symptoms of ovulation. It is, also, the two days that we had unprotected sex when I got pregnant back in August.) For the last 3 months, we've been trying on day 10-14, inclusive. Any thoughts, suggestions, or tips are welcome.

Thank you so much, in advance!

6 Answers • 7 years ago


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There's roughly a 20% chance you'll conceive each cycle, even when you time everything perfectly. It's normal for healthy couples to take up to a year to conceive. I'm on my 4th cycle trying after a miscarriage, so I definitely feel your pain and frustration!

7 years ago


Thank you! I didn't realize it was so low. I just hope we are doing everything right. I hope this is the time for both of us. :-)

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You could consider charting your cycles and taking ovulation tests to get a better sense of when you ovulate. A pretty safe bet is to BD every other day once your period ends to make sure you cover your bases. Good luck!

7 years ago


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Thanks! That was one of my questions. Is every other day better than every day?

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My response was meant for Twiddlebug.

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