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Scared after loss of one twin!

My husband and I were expecting girl/boy twins our daughter died at 29weeks very heart breaking still. Our surviving twin is now 1 and I have the baby blues. I want to try again but husband doesn't. We wasn't careful this month. My question is am I just reacting on emotions and should we just wait?

5 Answers • 7 years ago


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Oh hun, I'm so so sorry for your loss, sorry I don't have an answer for you but my advice would be to really speak to your husband, you both would want to be in agreement, tell him what a great father he is and how desperately you want to provide a sibling for your son. I wish you all the very best.

7 years ago


I too am very sorry for your loss. You might want to encourage your dh and pray about it, sleep on it for a few days and see how you feel. If you still have strong desires to have a baby, then talk to dh about it. Good luck ????


please excuse any typos as I'm on my cell phone

7 years ago


Im sorry for your loss, i agree with pp, pray on it and give him time. now you brought it up hes thinking about it. as long as you are prepped in every other way just pray on it and dont guilt trip him. Its best for you all to be in agreement


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7 years ago


Thank you all for the kind words I will definitely pray on it. My dh is not really big on communication. However, I decided just to get my emotions together first and go from there. As I mention earlier though we wasn't to careful this month so a little on edge about that. But time will tell. Just thankful for the blessings I have.

7 years ago • Post starter


All the very best xxx

7 years ago


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