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Hi, if it's loss - similar happened to me its called a chemical pregnancy. I'm so sorry you are going through this. It may not be identical but I had + test at docs then bled then neg test within 5 days :( I've had 2 further miscarriages since at 6-9 wks, the 9 week loss was twins where 1 died 7w and other was viable but left me at 9) All losses are unpleasant, I was advised it was chromosomal and to try again which upset me more as I didn't want to try again I wanted that pregnancy to work out so I know it's hard to be positive but I'm here and healthy and had all the tests and we now know I have nk killer cells (my body kills my husbands babies) thrombophilia (blood clotting) and pcos so I have zero chance of maintaining a pregnancy alone so I need Ivf which I start next month. I have friends/colleagues who had chemical losses though (just means early loss before 6 weeks) and they all went onto have children naturally! I hope you make a speedy recovery and send hugs your way (())

Thank you! I knew when I started spotting the day I went to the doctor, that bad news was on its way. Especially after all the huge clots when trying to give a urine sample, scared me! I tried so hard not to cry when the doctor told me I had a negative test. I told her that I had used 4 Early Response Pregnancy tests and all came out positive. So, the negative test there didn't make sense.... Still feeling very sad. Though I have my two beautiful children, I was definitely hoping to surprise them on XMAS with the news of a new baby .....