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I'm so sorry you have to go through this, it could be what your dr is suggesting or it could have been a chemical pregnancy. The chemical pregnancy is what your dr explains as fertilization occuring but that implantation did not fully happen. I've had 3 miscarriages this year, so I really understand what you are going through, I will keep you in my prayers, just be positive, I know it is hard, but whatever will be will be, even though ot may seem like the end of the world at the moment!!! Big hug

Thank you Chocolatemilk. I believe the hardest part is to accept the fact that our bodies go through these stages and life happens. I think what go to to me the most was knowing that all the emotions of sharing the good news to my family and children on Xmas went down the drain! And my husband is taking it very lightly, which upsets me a bit because Im over here having a melt down.....

Oh honey, I know, it is so so hard, my husband also just sat there as if nothing had happened, twice this year, first one was April and the again June, it seemed as though he couldn't care less that we had just lost a child, however this is not at all what they feel, he had told me that he too was broken, not only fir the fact that our baby died, but the fact that he saw me broken and he couldn't do anything to fix it. I know exactly how you feel, you have to deal with the heart ache and you feel like a failure. I was angry at my body, because it has now let me down 3 times, I was angry at God, and I realise now that it is okay to be angry, and it is okay to be sad, because it wasn't just another pregnancy, it wasn't just a few cells, it is our babies. You are allowed to grieve and you take as long as you need to. Again I'm so so sorry!!! Lots of cyber hugs