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Hi, I didn't test positive until 14 dpo last time and tested neg before with the clearblue digital so keeping everything crossed for you! I feel your pain having suffered 4 losses myself in 18 mths at 42 and most recently twins but that was at 9 weeks so I just cannot begin to imagine what you are going through having got so far. I don't think there is anything wrong with you but if you need reassurance could you seek medical advice? I have had all the tests and there is nothing wrong - they just blame old eggs with chromosomal deformities, which is out of my control however a consultant at the hospital who did my d&c this time explained one of her ladies delivered a baby that same day I was in, aged 49 and said don't give up! Have you considered marking the baby's due date by letting off balloons or a lantern? It may just help offer you some closure. I wish you well and I'm so sorry you've experienced this, my thoughts are with you. Message me if you fancy a chat anytime. X

Thank you for your response. Well my period appeared on time so have to try again this month see what happens. Your response and words mean a lot so appreciated . Am sorry for your loss too. Am trying to get myself in a state of mind where I just don't focus on getting pregnant but it's hard. I will add u on so we can keep in contact :) thanks again