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The only advise I would give is to have a positive frame of mind and faith in yourself. We have no idea how our mind controls our body processes. I personally believe that a happy state of mind can take care of a lot of things. Keep stress as far as possible. Breathe deep in case you find yourself in one of those unavoidable stressful situations.

its funny you say that because i was just talking to my hubby about needing to have a sit down with people and tell them whats going on because they do cause so much stress in our lives and i have a very short temper. something i dont like, especially during times like these. hes big on faith and believing that if you think positive and speak it into existence, good things will come. im just having a hard time with all of this because my system has been so irregular since ive been around his family and some other things that are going on right now, i cant exactly pin point anything. i dont understand things about tracking my cycle ( this is the first time ive tried) and its just all so confusing. but thank you for the reply. im definitely trying to keep myself calm and collected.

When I finally got pregnant I wasn't "trying". I had given up charting and all that madness because it was making me obsessive and stressed out. Good luck to you!

See im doing the opposite, i at first wasnt really trying, and hated playing the guessing game. So i figured id try all the tracking to see if it helps any.
Thank you for the comment though