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He should go see his doctor. As women we can get our feelings hurt by this, chances are it has nothing to do with you. He may just be trying to save you both the discomfort if he can not perform by avoiding sex, a doctor could really help. Good Luck, this is a sensitive subject with most men and far more common then we are led to believe.

I have definitely been there (still am there, actually) and it sucks! Not just physically but psychologically. Our solution was to get him to the doctor and get him a low-dose Cialis RX, which he takes the night before we BD (it's best to BD in the morning because men are more naturally frisky). Even if he refuses to go to a doc, BD first thing in the morning might help immensely. Good luck!!

Thank you so much ladies! I really appreciate it!

Have you tried a strip tease? That usually help my hubby get down to business. Otherwise, he may need a little medical help.