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4th miscarriage in a row in just under a year??!!!
Im currently going through my 4th loss in a row right now. Im totally devastated, I have had 6 losses now in total but I do have 2 rainbows. I just don't understand why this keeps happening to me? Has anyone had 4 or more losses in a row and had a successful pregnancy after? Im so considering giving up now because I cant deal with the heartache every loss, but I desperately want another baby. I dont know what I should do? Do I give up or is there hope for me? Thanks.
6 Answers • 10 years ago
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First off, I'm so sorry for your losses. This hasn't happened to me personally, but did happen to a friend of mine and she is just now pregnant and carrying well. The doctors were able to get to the bottom of the reason for her miscarriages and act proactively the next time she got pregnant. What was happening to her was her cervix wasn't closing up after conceiving so she kept having early miscarriages. This time when she got pregnant they were able to sew the cervix and she is now 16 weeks. If you haven't already you should go see your OBGYN or fertility specialist and see if they can get to the root of why this is occurring. The good news is you and you partner seem to be a great fertility match. Fingers crossed you will have your sticky bean very soon!!
10 years ago
Thank you for your reply. I have had some tests and all clear. I will be asking if there are anymore tests I can have. Its just so disheartening and not knowing how many times I will have to go through this to get my 3rd rainbow hurts or if I will ever get another rainbow. I really feel like giving up right now. Thank u again.
10 years ago • Post starter
Having been through two myself, I truly can't imagine what you are going through right now. Remember that we are all here for you and think about how completely amazing it will be when the day finally comes and you get to hold your beautiful baby in your arms. The one positive is that you are able to get pregnant, so I would suggest meeting with a fertility specialist to try and get more answers. Good luck and BABY DUST!! :)
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