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its so hard to celebrate when you want it so bad your self , i understand how you feel when i go on face book its like a dagger to my heart w all the baby photos! keep the faith :)

Four years is a long time! Have you been to the doctors?

Four years is a long time! Have you been to the doctors?

Right there with you! We have been ttc for 6 years, with 2 recent miscarriages after ivf, and out of my 2 best friends, one had a baby in october and the other just texted me she was 13 weeks along last week. They both got pregnant in a couple tries! Now I feel so alone and left behind. I have absolutely nothing to talk to them about anymore. I burst into tears after that text and my dh had to hold me for hours. I haven't even been able to force myself to text her back or congratulate her...I just can't.

@maggie22 yes me and the hubby have been dr had all the test done and I have also had a hsg and there is absolutely nothing wrong with either of us. I guess my body just don't want to do what it's meant to so right now. I really do feel like giving up but my heart tells me not to... Guess I'm just gonna have to keep on for a miracle!

@mnor0406 so sorry to hear about your loss, your story is pretty much the same as mine and not in a horrible way but it make me feel a little better that other out there are going through what I am going through and no the torture of TTC. Last night was such a struggle I literally cried myself to sleep. I feel so terrible I really do want to be happy for my friend it's so hard though. I'm so dreading going to the baby shower.. I guess we both have to just try and keep hope and be positive and our miracles will come lots of baby dust to you! Xoxoxox

Aww hon, Im pretty much in the same boat. TTC for over 2 years with no luck, in the middle of drs appts and clinics but came back with nothing wrong but its just not happening. You cant give up, have you tried fertility meditation? I have just started doing it and I find it so helpful, it helps you visualize baby stuff to keep your mind positive. I know it souns daft but it really helps lift spirits. Chin up hon, you will be a mam soon x