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dont get upset unfortunely dats the process that we all have to go threw wen ttc it sucks but the month will come just keep posotive and keep faith we have a whole life of months to keep trying ..9 dpo is to early for you to say your out ..really the only solution is to just wait to see if af arrives..if it does then hey theres always next month and the next and the next and on and on and you might want to think on charting everything on trying to see ur excaxt ovulation day keep more of a notebook of notes that will help you increase the process of ttc.

Oh honey look ive been where you are and i know its heart breaking ,frustrating and exhausting ,The thing is your only 9dpo if that so there is still hope yet ,i found that once i got to the point yr at now i relaxed and sure enough a month later i got pregnant with my little girl . I believe babies are little angels sent when they are meant to be ..im keeping my fingers crossed for you ok id say try testing at 12dpo that would give a more realistic result xxx

When I was 9 dpo I also got a negative test, but the very next day it was positive. Do not give up that quickly. Good luck.

Thanks guys... :( It just gets so overwhelming sometimes... I'll wait until the 24th, when my period is expected... If it doesn't come that day and doesn't look like it will the next morning I'll retest... Sigh, its just so frustrating!!!