Answered by comeonbaby2013 - Jul. 11, 2012 4:46pm
Yep, I did. I am 37 years old and I have know that hubby wasn't able to conceive and I WAS ok with that
for many years. About 6 months ago I changed my mind. That simple, I just changed my mind. So we went to the RE, I tested ok and so we have done 2 IUI's with DS. I am currently in the 2WW for #2.
Fingers, arms, legs and eyes crossed for a BFP in a few days,
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Answered by Inspirebliss - Jun. 20, 2012 7:17am
I am the same, I was an older sibling so I know how much responsibility kids can be and I really thought I wanted to do whatever I wanted to do and be "selfish" as people would call it. I worked full time, finished school and then decided at 23 to blow all my savings traveling the globe, now 3 years later, I came back got married to my best friend and bought a house. Now something inside me keeps thinking how special it would be to share our wonderful life with children, whether we conceive or adopt. I think people who conceive before they have the financial stability, or emotionally maturity whether that's patience or a supportive relationship are being "selfish " by robbing their children of a more stable life.
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Answered by a member - Jun. 20, 2012 3:13am
It is pretty nromal I think. Alot of people that have already established themselves in life and did the whole "been there and done that" tend to want kids later in life. I always say I don't want anymore then I start thinking how a little girl would be nice and I'm not getting any younger then my clock starts ticking...
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Answered by a member - Jun. 20, 2012 12:10am
my husband said for years he never wanted kids and then ,he changed his mind and we had a daughter who he loves with all of his heart and soul .
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