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I'm testing tomorrow morning and I really don't want to! I am an anxious mess and I'd rather wait until AF is late... but since I go to the doctor tomorrow I'll find out either way. I keep trying to tell myself all the reasons why a BFN would be okay... more time to save money, the baby's birthday wouldn't be the same month as like 7 people in DH's family.... but none of it is helping, I know I will be crushed if I get a BFN after 14 months of them. Blah!

Dragonfly- I think it’s 8-10weeks but I’m not sure. For me it’s been 14yrs since last pregnancy

I believe it is 8 weeks to hear it on the ultrasound!

Msautumnj- I hope you get your BFP this cycle! Keep us updated.

@Beaut1ful38 and @Ksyd94. Thank you. They will be able to tell if there is one or more at this scan. They are doing the dating scan.

Well, I woke up an hour before my alarm went off having to pee. Took the test, and.....

I GOT MY after 14 cycles of trying! It isn't even a squinter! DH is still passed out and I am FREAKING OUT.

I guess my doctor's appointment today is going to be very different than I thought.

to everyone who still has a few days to go!

mrsautumnj- so happy for you! What are your symptoms? Anything you did differently this cycle?

@ mrsautumnj - Congratulations!!! !! 14 months is a long time to wait and I'm so happy that your wait is finally over!!!

@mystique - I'm sorry you didn't get to BD this cycle . That must be so difficult to do. Will your DH be around next cycle so you can get the timing right?

AFM - I'm on 14 DPO and expecting AF today. We will see what happens. I haven't been crushed by cramps yet so I'm not considering myself out yet.

@mrsautumnj. Yay. Congradulations. I am so happy for you. When is your expected due date?

@Beaut1ful38. How are you feeling? Do you have your first appointment booked?

As for me, been emotional the last couple days so I am hoping that today and so forth will be better; so far so good. I broke down yesterday and I told my one girlfriend at work as she was starting to clue in and deep down I had to tell someone so when I am having a bad day, I will have someone to talk to at work. My doctor changed my due date to October 14. My hubby is getting excited now as him and I made a wager on what the sex will be. He thinks it is going to be a girl and I am thinking it is going to be a boy and $50 is on the line. Would the bet still be valid if it turns out it is twins as I have a funny feeling that I might be having twins. Time will tell.

@FlamingoGirl13. I really hope that this is your month and you can stay here with us. Any other symptoms that are different from the rest? Glad that you stopped temping as that definately takes the stress away when it is so close to AF time. Will you be testing tomorrow if AF doesn't show today?