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Cass- They say the best time to test is at night. I read that somewhere and can not remember where I read that. Some doctors just don't have a clue what we go through and its just like where I work, the nurses have no idea what us aides have to go through putting at least 13-14 patients to bed at night.

But I woke up this morning with the worse headache, and the worse lower back pain. I couldn't even stay in bed. It was horrible.
And I have the condition pseudo-tumor cerebri where my brain thinks there is a brain tumor but there isn't. My neurologist said that it is worse in pregnancy. And I take medication for it so..I don't know what is going on. I have an appointment with him next week. And my teeth...I one that is very sensitive, not that they are not all sensitive cause they all are. But this one if I touch it I will jump through my skin. I don't know what I am gonna do. But right now I feel terrible.

Hope this is the month for you girl. Praying for you.

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Hi girls!! I'm new to this thread.....my name is Casey and am trying for #2 after Depo! That birth control should be taken off the market. My last depo shot was July of last year so I have only one month left and it should be out of my system. Anyway, I saw that y'all were talking abt OPK'S and when to test. My first time using the CBE OPK was in March and I got my 1st Smiley with FMU, tested again at 3:00pm and no more Smiley (short surge)....April I had to test around 3-4:00 pm and got a Smiley face! I couldn't believe it so I tested again thru out that night and Smiley stayed until the next morning it was gone...ALL AROUND CD16-17!!! Yesterday was CD16 so I tested FMU and it was negative. Last night I had a funny feeling and tested at 11:00pm. I got a Smiley! I tested FMU this morning and it was negative. I say test twice a day and listen to ur body. BD Friday and twice yesterday before and after the Smiley and always use Pre Seed! Hoping for something to happen soon!
Lots of STICKY BABYDUST TO US ALL!! I pray for us all daily, and to have a short journey here!

Im so mad right now. I called and left a message with my doc, Told him CD1 started yesterday k, Well the nurse calls me back and says umm ok lets see he wants you to start your provera on the 14th, i said no i just took my provera, she says you said cd1 started yesterday right i said yes, She said um ok well he wants you to start the provera on the 14th and have intercoarse on the 20th bla bla bla ect ect... I said i think he has it all confused, he already put me on my provera and it jump started my period yesterday, i want to no weather he wants me to start clomid days 3-7 or 5-9, I mean comeon how hard is that i know more then my own damn doctor im so tired of this shit.

Every month someone i know becomes pregnant, It just happend again, Why must we be envyis of them, its like human nature for me, and i cant help it, There all younger then me like just out of there teens most of them.
Please Please lord Please bless us with a healthy bounceing baby Please

Hey Cass!!
Its total human nature to be envious but I know it doesn't matter or help when it comes to this. Ur time will come girl but until then just vent and let it out. It helps me a whole lot to read stuff on here BC I'm too afraid to let everyone around me know how bad I want a BFP! I don't want to be reminded and asked how things r going so I just talk to my BF and then I joined in here with u and some other girls. Hope u have a better day!!

welcome kklyn!

hope your opk "feeling" turns out to be right and you get your bfp!

i also know the feeling of envy cass. it seems everywhere i turn there are pregnant women :) i always smile and hope that God will answer our prayers too. stay positive!

i am on CD20. 11 days past my trigger & 10 days past my suspected ovulation day.

i peed on a stick at 7 days past trigger just to see if the HCG had left my system, but it showed up as positive. to avoid the confusion, I'm gonna wait till my expected AF day to test. (6/21).

i think this may be our last "assisted" cycle. we can't take the disappointment any longer and talked about just settling for a life without children of our own. i'm not sure how to feel about this because my desire to become a momma is still very strong.

i hope to see some bfp's from the rest of you :)

baby dust!!!

Welcome kklyn!!! Nice of you to join us. Cass-I know doctors can be very stupid...nurses can be too, I work with them all the time. They think they know everything and they don't. Some doctors probably think about someone else and tell you the wrong thing. My doctor thought my mom had endometriosis and she doesn't. I was like no she doesn't. They do get confused. Don't let it drag you down. Think about doing something fun. Or enjoy a day at home with hubby. Watching a movie, cuddling on the sofa together. Fix a nice dinner and play a game.

My doctor hasn't called me yet about my blood tests. I am still waiting on that. I haven't ovulated yet....so maybe a good sign. I still have terrible lower back pains, I have cramps like period type cramps but I am not due for that until the end of the month. My cat is still on my heels all the time...24/7. That is where I stand at at the moment.

Keep your head up high, and stay strong. Prayers to God work, so keep praying and I will keep praying for you too.

Hope888---I am hoping everything is working out for you as well. Let us know what the results are.

Hope, acollier and kkyln ty for making me feel better :)
HOPE: why was it positive are you pregnant or do you have HCG in your system from some kind of med. Hope this is it for you.
Hubby is going to second shift yay no more thirds, or nights with out my hubby by my side yay.
And were buying my hubbys moms house with in the next yr im real happy about that, i love that place i can see my self living there for ever :)
Babysitting my little bro nlaw keeps my mind on fun things and not negative ones, but he goes to school befor long and i guess its back to sitting around the house finding projects to do :)!
Doc called well nurse did lol
Clomid 14th-18th
Sex 20th-30th
blood work july2 CD23
hmmm do you think hes testing to early since i have a 47 day cycle last time, Does that matter because i dont understand the checking the progesterone levels thing??
Can someone explain this to me

Cass- Im not sure I would have to look that up. I believe that the progesterone levels will stay high when pregnant. but I am not quite sure about that.

Congrats on buying your house. That is one big milestone as well.

I still haven't heard back from my doc about the bloodwork. I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing. My cat l,ikes to nurse on me. I can't stand it much longer. If i am pregnant, do you think she will hurt the baby nursing on my stomach. It seems like she always wants to be in my lap anymore. Its starting to et annoying.

Anyway....Good luck Cass. Hope everything goes well. Keep you updated with bloodwork and everything.

Ash

TY acollier :)
Havent bought it yet, its going to be a yr or 2, were helping mom build her house and then when she moves out were signing everything over, got to sale ours first, Thats ok im not done with this place yet anyways, ill injoy the time i have left here :)
CD5 is here, think AF is about over with Thank god
Started clomid today at 7:00pm
Taking temps at 5:30am
and going to start my opks on CD12 i think :)