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sheriskers - I'm so sorry :( Thinking of you. Statistics do say that pregnancies conceived within 6 months of a loss have a higher rate of success, so I'm hoping this next one is it for you!

AFM- Temp is continuing to rise. I've set O day according to fertility friend. The holiday really is helping to keep me from wanting to test, but I wish I knew because I want to buy so much when I'm out shopping with DH!

Merry Christmas everyone!!

Just to update you. My frer was super super faint this morning
And digitals negative. I am thinking chemical pregnancy. This is
SUCH a horrible feeling.
So I guess I wait for AF, I am cramping bad too.

Oh Holly I’m so sorry! Lots of hugs.

Holly - I am so sorry. :(

@Holly I'm so so sorry. That was me last cycle so I'm here if you ever need someone to relate to. Hugs.

I know I assumed I didn't O this cycle right after my chemical but I'm getting a lot of the same symptoms I did when I got my BFP last cycle...... It has me wondering now. I wasn't even going to bother testing this cycle but just might give in in a couple days. Perhaps it's all just leftover hormones from my m/c as it hasn't even been 4 weeks yet.

Thanks
Sheriskers- when did you start to bleed. I haven’t yet.
I still get a faint line on frer but digitals all negative.

@Holly, my strongest positive was 12DPO, they got weaker 13DPO and 14DPO before I was too upset and stopped testing. Spotting began 18DPO, then full on bleeding on 20DPO. I bled for 6 days total and was back to stark white negative by then.

Praying this isn't your story.

Sheriskers- I started spotting yesterday, full on AF today. I have heard so much about chemical pregnancies, I guess I never thought it would happen? Oh well.
I keep reading I don’t have to stop trying or anything.
Thanks for the support

Hope everyone had a good Christmas.

@Holly Ugh, I'm so sorry. I completely understand everything you're going through. I never thought it'd be us either. I also heard the only reason you're told to wait is to date your pregnancy better so hubs and I definitely didn't. I got all the signs of O at the normal time of my cycle as soon as the bleeding stopped. The only thing that makes me think I skipped actually Oing is never getting a peak reading on my fertility monitor. Everything else seems to have recovered VERY quickly. I hope that's the case for you too!

@Holly you are in my thoughts...
@Sheriskers - sorry to hear about last month, hope this is The month for you!

Seems like AF is about to show up for me.. I began spotting today .. this was my second IUI so I was really hoping it will take... but seems like I have to wait some more for the good news... ????