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OMG Courtney - I'm so sorry. This must be so devastating for you. My prayers are with you.

Faith

So sorry! Your in my thoughts and prayers!

I am so sorry, that is just terrible. Have you thought about maybe having a baby on your own? Getting a sperm donor? Then you don't have to worry about anyone else and just focus on yourself and your baby and your wants and needs, not someone else's.

I went through this exact same thing back in November. My life turned upside down. What happened since then? I was able to forgive my husband, he was able to be trusted some what again and our marriage became better than even when we were dating.. AND I ended up pregnant in december/january. And I have only God and faith to give credit for all of it. I had no idea what I was going to do.. I had planned on moving out. Leaving for good forever.. and ever. Never seeing him again.. leaving the state I lived in, but i put faith before myself even and things turned out... amazingly happy. I thought there was no way.. and then there was a way.

If you ever need to chat since I have been there.. feel free to message me. :) i am thinking of you. I know what that pain feels like... all too well.

I tried for over a year with my ex husband and he ended up being a cheating loser too. I'm SO glad I didnt get pregnant with his baby. 2 years later I married the love of my life and it took us 2 more years to get pregnant with my first and we are going on 4 months TTC our 2nd. Keep your head up everything happens for a reason. I'm sure there is a great guy out there that will respect you enough not to cheat on you and would love to have a baby with you.

Thank you guys so much for all of your uplifting comments! This is really a crappy situation, but I can't even explain how happy I am that he pulled this crap before any babies were on the way! That would make this SO much harder!