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Expecting, sorry for your loss, I completely understand how you feel. Don't feel bad if you decide not to go, a good friend would understand. I just had to go visit sister in law at the hospital with her new baby (I should be due in 2 weeks) so I completely get it! Don't give up hope, we'll all get our bfps!!

Pookie... You are NOT a Bitch... well, all of us are - but not in this case. The way you felt was totaly natural and justified... No worries. Baby Dust to you both... But, you first. Sorry.

So... The EWCM late must have been just the leftovers... Thats what I am chalking it up to anyway... Does that sound totally redic?

Let me just put this out there. I BD ed from day 6 and will continue until Day 18 which is tomorrow... CRAZY LADY here!!! Holy crap huh???

If this does not work, I will be convinced that it was a bad egg... Please GOD!

Where is everyone today? I guess I am 2DPO... I ovulated on Monday.

What should one test???

Expecting - It is ok if you don't go... I would send her a personalized gift of something really special... It is hard to say if she will be disappointed with you not attending though... Pregnant ladies are totally nuts. I have been there. But it is totally OK if you dont go... Don't be to hard on yourself and you always have us.

Corvina - NOT YET! Wait... you are almost there!

WantAnother - My GF just told me that IVF often isnt covered by insurance, but artificial insemination is... Something to consider... Talk to another doc... Where are you from?

I can't wait to POAS!

Bianca, I totally agree on the gift idea

Pookie, I'm with Bianca, baby dust to you

I think I'm 1dpo?? I was supposed to O on Monday too but was still getting positive opk last night sooo??? We bd'd Sunday night then again last night (would have more but DH was away ) so I'm hoping one of the swimmers made their way there!

I'm in Canada so I'm not sure what our medical covers (prob not much) and we have no extra insurance cause we're self employed (tanning shop owners, saw chat about it earlier) so I think all fertility treatments will bout of our pockets.

Hopefully you're right and the ewcm was left over

Girls... This may not be for all of you, but I wanted to post it anyway because it really opened up my eyes. From the Bible:

"Your ways, O God, are holy, What God is so great as our God? You are the God who performs miracles. You display your power among the peoples...My times are in your hands."
Psalm 77:13-14,31:10

This really is out of our hands... but it is so amazing to know that we have eachother...

xo

Thank you bianca I needed that :)
I'm hopeing that this is my month. I have been married for 5 going on 6 years and untill this year was I well enough to begin ttc. I have wanted it for so long.
Thank you ladies for listening you guys are the best :)

ARGH!!! Is anyone else flushing in their cheeks every once in awhile?! Esp in the evenings?! It's making me CRAZY!

Mrs Schmidt I have gotten that way. I even took my temp to see if I was comeing down with something.

Thanks for your advice girls! Still not entirely sure what I am going to do... I still have a little time before I need to give a reply. The irritating part was when she originally told me she was preggers I was going to be the one to have the shower... then I miscarried and tossed around the idea of still doing it, but couldnt decide... I'm so insane, I'm up one minute down the next what a rollarcoaster! Thanks for all the support though! It's so nice to have people who understand and dont think I am being a bitch for debating not going.

I am feeling a bit better this evening... did some shopping this afternoon... that always helps!! LoL! People keep telling me (or I read things on the internet) about getting af cramps and still getting their bfp, so I havent given up hope entirly yet. Actually kinda tempted to go poas now... but I don't want to risk a bfn! grrr!!

want another - I'm from Canada as well, and unless you have additional insurance through work or you dh I'm pretty sure only the very basics are covered.

bianca - I think that is awesome that you are going to bd from day 6-18!! If I dont get my bfp thats so what I am doing next cycle!! straight from af to af!! LMAO!! No worries, if you're crazy, you definitely aren't the only one!! LOL!

Baby Dust to all

Well, in an entirely non baby related subject...I brought my dad to the emergency room around 1pm. He is suffering from severe dehydration and alcohol withdrawal symptoms. Basically, he is a "recovering" alcoholic whonhas fallen off the wagon and tried to get back on, but has fallen severely I'll. He hardly knew who I was when I visited today. For once, it was nice to not worry about anything else in my life and focus on my father.

In baby news....I am apparently, 1 dpo today, but DH and I BD anyway this morning bc I apparently ovulated yesterday. In my opinion it was more like the day before. For like the 100th time we are stretching it this month, so if I am preggo I'll chalk it up to PRE seed and the miracle of conceiving on ovulation day. Lmao. And if I'm not, oh freaking well and we'll make sure we don't argue next month. Lol. But, ya never know am I am eagerly waiting to POAS, already. What a fun time. We all say we hate the 2 ww, but it sure as shit is more fun than waiting to ovulate, right girls!?

2 dpo and i have pink tinged cm when i reached up and took a look why guys????