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"it will happen as soon as you stop trying"...one of my all time favorites. (insert eye roll here) ha

So, do you have any children?

No children cj thats why its even harder to deal with all of this :(

I was told to......stop wearing tampons!!! hahaha I guess tampons affect my egg producing abilities!

I think "just relax and it will happen" is fine since cause it's just what people say when they don't know what advice to give, and it's ok advice, relaxing when ttc is good for you. But it will happen when you stop trying is a LIE! Haha I really just hate when people who have had a baby tell you that you aren't if your symptoms aren't the exact same as theirs were or you'll know you are when their symptoms happen to you. Every body is different!

aroma- I think CJ was saying "so do you have any kids yet?" was one of the comments she gets...not actually asking you if you have any kids.

The worst comment i received was from a fertility doctor...Of all people!!!

She says after my exam " Are you sure you love ur husband?" I nearly fell off the damn table crying...So jus because i have unexplained infertility must mean I dont love my hubby??? Are you effin kidding me??? We have been married 12yrs and its the best its ever been..I couldnt even bring myself to tell my DH what she had said.. That was the last time I went for help :( Now i jus get my yearly exam and leave it at that...tryin to get the courage to visit another dr..not giving up yet!!!

Yes, I meant that people will ask me "do you guys have any children yet?" And I never know what to say... just hate it..... and recently on this forum I was told not to use tampons..... seriously I didn't need a lecture about that.... and I hate it when people tell me to just relax and it will happen....... not always for everyone!!!!!!

ok ok so when god said who wants "BIG BOOBS" I went running thinking he said who wants "BIG BRAINS" lol Sometimes I'm just another pretty face ... so another 1 I encountered is from a pregnant client who said really you want to be puking and these huge stretch marks,its really not all it's cracked up to be...UGH yes I want all that and I hate puking but if I had to puke every 5 min. knowing that that meant I was pregnant BRING IT ON!!!!!!!

Why dont you just adopt!

#SLAP