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Hello Ladies!

Its finally been 2 cycles since my miscarriage... I took that time to kind of take a break from thinking about ttc. Now I'm good to go! I think Im only 2 dpo now. I'm not entirely tracking as I don't want to stress. So here we go again!

I was sooo excited to see your bfp Krunchie. And am way bummed to hear the sad news. I hope next time it sticks!! It sucks to get sooo happy and then be let down . Hugs and positive thoughts commingled your way!

Joy I'm ecstatic that you're getting close to meeting your baby boy!

I sincerely hope everyone else is doing well. I look forward to reading this forum even when I cant find time to post. Hoping to hear some more good news on here. Have a great rest of the week!

Amber

epp! just got a call from my clinic and they are happy for me to try straight away! so start blood testsnext week to detect ovulation, the my second FET!

so happy! so surpirsed too! had come round to thinking it would be 6 weeks till i could go again!

so, thinking transfer around the 10th Nov and test date around the 20th but will let you know!!!

Hi ladies!

Katie - Yay thats awesome that they will let you try again right away... that makes it so much easier I am sure! There is nothing like being stuck waiting after sad news... better to just throw yourself back into it I find! Good luck sweetie!

Amber - Welcome back! We've missed you! Keeping my fingers crossed that you dont have to wait much longer for that elusive bfp... and a sticky one at that!!

AFM - Not much going on. Not very impressed right now... it's snowing/hailing out atm..... lovely.

Hope everyone is doing well! I'm off to babysit my nephew!
xx Joy

Yikes.. my last reply was almost a week ago & still no one has been on?? Where is everyone??

Hope you're all doing great & to those affected by this crazy weather - stay safe!! xx

i'm still here!!

but not much going on so nothing to report?

how is your belly doin??!!

First blood test tomoorow to start the count down to my next transfer!

im using today as the last day of the month to clean the house, sort out all sorts of stuff, and start clean and fresh tomorrow with exercise, food etc. ready for a successful FET and pregnancy by the end of November!!

also treated myself to a tarot card reading this afternoon!! figured being on All Hallows eve where the boundry between the living and the dead is at its weakest....

haha! dont worry im not insane, just like these little coincidences and like to get these reading once in a while! sometimes its absolute clap trap (went with a friend once, sperate readings, didnt know we were together and we were both told the same thing!!) but others have been scarily on track (when i asked if there was a message from the person who gave me my watch as this one 'reads' jewlery, was told there was an older gentleman with breathing difficulties. Hmm I thought as my grandfather who gave me the watch was quite old and didnt have breathing difficulties, but then she said he was in his 60s and had emphasema (sp!) and OMG its was my other grandfather who died in his 60s from emphasima and i was thinking i want a message from grandpa, i just got the other one that I didnt know as he died beofre i was born)

so i just take it as a fin thing to do!

my last reading said i would have two angel babies before i get my earth two, and I am hoping that it would be the one from my ectopic and now this chemical one...?

all fun though I assure you!

Hi ladies!

Katie - The tarot reading sounds like fun!! I have never had one done before, but they always interested me... just seems kinda neat, dispite the face that they are usually mostly crap, as you said! LoL! Hopefully the reading about the 2 angel babies was right - then you would be due for your earth baby!! (In November perhaps????)

You said the transfer would be around the 10th of Nov, right? And test date around the 20th? So exciting!! Can't wait to hear the results!!!! Sending you tons of sticky vibes!!!!!

AFM - My belly is doing great, thanks! LoL, growing like you wouldnt believe... I actually have some maternity tops that no longer cover the whole thing anymore! Have a feeling this is going to be a very BIG little boy! LoL! 4.5 weeks to till my due date, and I am feeling pretty! Judging by all my preggo friends in the past who complained constantly I really dont think they had much to complain about!! (But then they'd never experienced a loss or trouble ttc, so they prob didnt appreciate every little thing like I do)

Aside from that, I have already started decorating my house for Christmas! By the end of today I am hoping all my halloween stuff will be down and my living room will be ready to be decorated tomorrow, if it's not already done tonight! lol! Got my bedroom, 2 bathrooms and kitchen done yesterday... so exciting!!

Happy Halloween everyone!!
xx Joy

Hi Friends!

It's been a while! I've been reading, though. I just don't have much to say.

Krunchie, crossing my fingers for you every step of the way!

Joy - glad Christmas is almost ready for you and that you and your belly are doing great!

Amber - Why am I even replying to you on here? We text everyday... LOL

AFM, I surely got AF last month, and am CD19 now with nothing to report. My cycle was a bit shorter last month, so hopefully I'm coming back down to normal a bit! Things are a bit crazy at work but my new partner started and she's great. She's catching on and I'm having less work. I itnerviewed for a full time position with my company (I'm contracting now) but didn't get it. The manager had approached me too. Well, another manager in a different department approached me and I'm starting the interview process on Monday morning! Fingers crossed please that that works out. That would be FANTASTIC! Hoping baby comes along when it's meant to be, but I don't think I'll start trying OPKs or anything anytime soon. Taking things one day at a time and enjoying my marriage and my house to ourselves. We are going to Hawaii in December - maybe a second honeymoon baby?!

Hope everyone is well and safe.

Caitlyn

Hi ladies!

abc - Glad to hear your still doing well. Sorry about af showing up last month. Hopefulyl she stays away this time! Good luck with the job interview!! FX!

Katie - Ugh time is going by way too slow... 4 days to go till the transfer though, then just a 10 day wait for your bfp!! FX FX FX!!!

To everyone else - How are you all doing?

Elle - Where ya been sweetie?

AFM - Not much going on, just waiting. (Isnt that always the case?) Got my Christmas decorations finished, wrote out most of my Christmas cards, and am hoping to get my Christmas gifts put under the tree today! Fun, fun!

On a more exciting note, my parents come home today after being gone for 3 weeks!! So excited to see them!

Hope everyone is doing well!
xx Joy

Hey there!

Not much to say really I am on cd19 of my 3rd Clomid cycle. Pretty sure I ovulated as I had the usual tender, bloated period like lower abs for about 3 days. Having my 1st bloods done friday.

I haven't been on much because there's nothing going on haha I have been put on the sick from work untril the end of November as my IBS got really bad and I lost a stone in 3 weeks from having diahorrea literally every day. SO on 10th December I see the gastro specialist and on the 18th I see infertility consultant!

It is alomst 11th November which is a sore day for me this is the day my 'mc' baby should be having its 1st birthday. I can't believe 18 months post miscarriage I am still not pregnant :(

Krunchie - sorry to read about your chemical, fingers crossed for next try

hey me dears

boo sucks to the third cycle AND being sick but small yeay to losing weight! not a good way to do it but if you are going to be sick you might as well ge something out of it! how many more clomid cycles will you do? or is that up for discussion at your next appointment?

sorry that 11/11 is not a good date for you, but fitting with rememberance day. lest we forget ANYONE we have loved and lost for what ever reason. xx

i am quite excited for this sunday though as i get my second FET! only two sleeps!! I was quite excited as i saw a clairvoyant and she knew off the bat that we were having IVF because my eggs were a poor quality (all i told her was that i was concerned with my fertility. no mention of IVF at all!) but she kept on coming up with 3. 3 IVF cycles? no. 3 eggs? no. but then she asked if i had miscarried and there have been two (if chemical pregnancy is classed as a miscarriage but i have had 2 positive pregnancy tests) and she said exactly, there is your 3. third time the charm! so i got a bit excited (not overly so im not that silly!) but she then said December. so that got me thinking 3 could be the third transfer that might happen in december, so a little down now too. but she was adamant that it was this time, its a girl!

so as i said, i take it all with a pinch of salt, but other things she said were spot on. like DH is the opposite of his eldest brother but spitting image of younger one (hell yes!) she said my grandmother who is still with me husband's name starts with F (Frank) and he is with her all the time as her mind starts to fade (yes, Alzheimerâ??s) and that we are very close (yes) and some other things i cant recall right now.

but what she did say that i am taking on board is about thoughts going full circle so if i have positive thoughts, positivity will come back to me.

so here is me positivity flowing!!

xx