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I haven't experienced this, but my DH and I are the same age as you guys and ttc#2! Best of luck to us both!

Aww it's nice that someone's in the same position as us (pretty much!) praying we both get our bfp's soon! Did you have any symptoms with your first? I'm symptom spotting but I've never been pregnant before so seriously have no idea what I'm looking for!

I have been pregnant three times - a chemical, my rainbow baby boy, and another chemical the month before last. I don't recall symptoms aside from normal pms with the first chemical. With my son I had vivid dreams, fatigue, breast tenderness that started earlier than normal for me, and all the normal pms things. With my recent chemical I had hot flashes, a metallic taste in my mouth, vivid dreams, and out of this world fatigue. My tummy also got very very hot! They have all been so different! My clearest pregnancy sign with my recent chemical was that my bbt stayed high after 12 dpo when it usually starts crashing and then AF comes a couple days later. With all of my pregnancies I also just KNEW I was pregnant somehow. I would unconsciously hold my hand on my tummy to protect it, or feel that I had better eat a tiny bit extra to keep my energy up, or wear extra warm clothes (it's winter here) basically I was unconsciously being extra careful to look after myself, and I only noticed it in hindsight after testing positive. It's all very vague but there it is haha! My understanding is that anything out of the ordinary could be a sign, including a lack of your usual pms symptoms..... Or not. Infinitely frustrating isn't it? I really hope this is it for you this cycle! I'm on CD2 currently, and looking forward to hopefully getting my second rainbow baby in a couple weeks!