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Hi ladies

It’s crazy but I think I’m out this month though I got a few very Light positives yesterday did a frer this morning with FMU Was about 4:30am couldn’t sleep insomnia is a bitch ! Was about a 4.5h hold and it was feinter then yesterday and the easy @ home negative also did a clearblue how many weeks With smu and came back not pregnant

I really don’t understand how I could have come from so much hope and symptoms yesterday to zero BFP and just cramps today

I’m 10dpo so I guess I’ll know for sure in the next 4 Days

Hi Ladies. I’m on cycle day 17 here. Starting on the digital OPKs for the first time 5 days ago. Using the fmu I’ve been testing every morning since Wednesday and each day was a plain circle for Low Fertility. I took one this morning and it went to a Static Smiley for Peak Fertility. Which was great to see as I never truly knew when I ovulated every cycle . Don’t know why I didn’t take these tests before now ????

So for those of you who use them firstly is it ok to go from low fertility to peak fertility and miss the flashing smiley day(s)? Then secondly would you recommending we DTD for the next 2/3 days in a row just to make sure I got that Peak covered? Like when is ovulation likely to happen when you see the Peak. The test line was actually thicker than the control line on the test ???? Thanks guys.

PS Kahlan+Nats Momma Huge congratulations for you with your BFP. So happy for you! xxx

Bb- your tests look very positive to me! How are you feeling??
Sunny- I would test again today as fmu can be more concentrated and give a false positive. I would test a couple times the next few days until your peak is clear. Then aim to bd the day of peak and 2 days following. You typically ovulate 24-36 he’s after peak.

AFM- 12 DPO. Tests are progressing!! I’m constipated, exhausted, nothing sounds good to eat, super thirsty all the time, and my bloat is big. I’m bloating in a bump shape, too, instead of the more muffin top style PMs bloat. I get lightheaded when I stand up a lot, and have the stretching, round ligament-like pain in my pelvis when I stand from laying and when I cough and sneeze. I’m so hoping and praying that this will be my sticky little one- but I won’t lie- I’m a bit nervous after 4 losses- but my 2 girls more me feel a bit more reassured!

Yay Kahlan. That's an awesome progression. I am so happy for you.

Hi ladies. Happy Sunday.
New cycle started. Hopefully will be back in the tww next week.

@lady so sorry AF got ya! Time for wine and chocolate and sushi

@k&n I'm bloating in a bump shape too, and I didn't even realize that was a thing until you said it haha!

@Sunny I agree with K&NMomma, you should keep testing. I have gone from barely a line on an opk in the AM to blazing positive and O pains by dinner time, so those hormones change fast! By the next morning the opk was negative again. If you can I would test morning noon and evening to make sure you catch the peak. Do you have any reliable O symptoms? I always have very distinct O pains, and they are so reliable that I have stopped using opks, and I can verify with my bbt and mucus that my pains are never wrong!

AFM: I was nauseated all day yesterday and just wanted to sleeeeeeeep. This morning I've woken up to a big temp jump - I have never seen my temp this high except for my recent bfp/chemical, so this is my first real clue that I might be pregnant again! If my temp stays high at 11 dpo I will pretty much know even before I test that it'll be a bfp just like last time, because my temp always starts to tank at 10 dpo.

Fingers crossed for you E.

I caved and tested early, and I think I can see the very beginnings of a vvvvvvvvvfl? Please snoop my profile to see pics and let me know your thoughts ladies. I've never tested this early in a bfp cycle so I don't know what I'm looking for when it comes to squinters!

E- just had a peak it’s so early hun there’s a shadow but would say neg right now .

Ok ladies did my frer and cb this morning safe to say it’s a at 12dpo realistically I should show on either test even though I did get some convincing results at 9,10,11 dpo maybe it was a chemical ? Anyways is due in 2 days so I guess I’ll be here again next cycle . Had a long chat with hubby as he can see how this is affecting me and I have decided not to test early anymore. I just set myself up for heartbreak so the earliest I will test is 13-14 dpo or wait till AF is a day overdue . I’m not buying anymore ic’s or cheap supermarket tests either they are a minefield .

Good luck to those of you with your BFP - Khalan x

And those of you who are now in the middle of or stating your TWW

I will prob lurk on this page until im in my TWW again x

Cd4. Not much to report except yesterday was horrible with runs. Told my husband that I was probably stressed out to the max and that's why I'm not pregnant. He fully understands. Sounds like this cycle we are going to try again.