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I have been looking at my app wrong...it has calculated my af to start tomorrow ...not Saturday..
Who would have though the day would come when we have to plan the bd’ing because we don’t want our partners to feel used ect.... I mean honestly....these men just need to put on their big boy pants and suck it up (or in this case take them off ) that’s the only bit they need to help with for now!

Amy - thanks and LOL! That should be a second nature to them haha.
bb- I had to guilt trip him and then entice him before we bded... The things we won't do just to get our way right LOL!
AFM Im on cd 11 with 3 days to go (possibly) before O day ( according to my app.) It would be 6 on here but I adjusted to have my stuff in sync.

Feeling pretty knackered today ladies...could just lay in bed and have a snooze but plodding on

Hberry I know right the look on his face it was like I was the predator now he knows how I usually feel !!
Amy did you test ?

No bb...I am going to hold out...my last couple of cycles have been oddly long so I am going to see how tomorrow goes I think...don’t want to keep wasting tests!

Amy - I hear you ! I just sticked up on amazons finest cheapies even though I said I wouldn't test early and provided hubby comes anywhere near me lol

Hey Ladies well AF showed up today right on the due date. I am so sad and down today I really had a good feeling this month. Especially with my symptoms. Anyway I’ve made an appt with my GP to go speak about this as I’m trying for almost 18 months and I’m 36. My other half is annoying me so much with how calm he is over things. His motto is if it happens it happens!! They have no idea. And that makes me so much worse when he says that.

We had a conversation before and his thoughts are if it doesn’t happen naturally he’s perfectly happy not to have any kids! I just feel like he thinks he’s the big man and couldn’t have anything wrong with his little swimmers you know. But it’s the way he says things about conceiving and the times he picks he doesn’t understand how upsetting it is.

Anyway enough ranting from me how’s everyone else feeling today? Fingers crossed for a few more BFPs in the next few days

Today my sister's friend found out the gender of her baby and made the big announcement on facebook. When I seen it I nearly broke down in tears.

Well af is meant to be due today....cd30, 14 dpo...I’ve saved my fmu but I’m scared to test....think I might just hold out to see what happens and test tomorrow...rather have af than see another negative

Wow Amy how are you holding off. I do understand how Af is easier to swallow than another negative. I have just had a read through, and all your stories could have been me writing them, timing b’ding, hubby not interested, etc. 11 yrs in total we endured that. I am however a total poas addict, that I am embarrassed.
So I just need to get this off my chest. I am three days late, the last yr af has been regular 28ish days. I always get really sore boobs as sign of af. This month nothing. I have tested tons and most negative, I have had two test with squinters but literally dry negative. I don’t feel pregnant, and don’t feel that af is going to arrive. I have used all my Ic’s and am resisting buying more, as I really need to break the poas addiction. My cervix is high and hard. I can’t work out if I am just having a long cycle, pregnant or going mad. I am just going to wait this out. Sorry for jumping on the thread and not being active, busy homeschooling three children, and working. Whilst trying to not guess at what my body is doing. Xx