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37 years old TTC #1 for years // Never been pregnant

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Hello everyone!
I feel so alone sometimes seeing everyone in here trying for #2, #3 etc and in early ages too while I’m 37YO and never been pregnant even though I’m trying for years! I never saw those two pink lines. Not a chemical, nothing! My body just cannot do it and I feel so defeated...
I really would like to see if there is anyone in same situation as mine. I made a similar post a while ago but all ladies close to my age had at least one child or been pregnant before.. I don’t wanna be rude and I understand that going through a chemical or a miscarriage must be the worst thing in the world when ttc but for me I don’t even know if my body is a even able to get pregnant, you know? And I’m not trying for 1-2 years too... I’m trying for almost 9 years.....
Anyone on the same boat? If you’re here... I would love to hear how you cope..


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Well, I am out she showed again. I guess after my wedding I will be back to trying. March 31st we have a specialist appointment and I guess we may have to start planning for having help with iui or something. Feeling really depressed this time. I want to shout it's not fair bu then I remember my journey isnt as long as others and then I remember it's not Gods plan for me yet.


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4 years ago • Edited


Aw bug.. I’m so sorry hun! I was having lots of hopes for you this cycle! It’s not fair for anyone.. 6 or 100 cycles it doesn’t matter. When your heart wants a child each cycles ache is the same.. I hope you’ll find a way to keep yourself busy till the wedding! It’s such a big deal and I’m sure you’ll enjoy it to the maximum! I hope to see you in here now or then! Hugs

AFM I also had a temp drop this morning and I’m not feeling anything different tbh so I’m expecting her any day now. Normally she should be here on Thursday. Hoping she won’t..


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4 years ago • Post starter


Alex how are you?

Af is being a pain. Only 1.5 cycles will be on hold. I looked at my wedding date and I should be around O time. So maybe this break will do the trick who knows.


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4 years ago


Hi bug! It will be such an amazing timing to get pregnant around your wedding time! A truly awesome gift!!! Fingers crossed!

I’m very confused about this past cycle of mine. First of I ovulated earlier at CD11 which had happened only once or twice in the past two years and now I started spotting last night with a following flow this morning and I was only 12DPO meaning my LP lasted only 11 days ... I mean I had an 11 day LP before but is not usual fo me. This makes me wonder if my hypothyroidism is off again. I got the flu for the second time at the month of January and the last couple days my skin broke up sooooo much. I didn’t have a break out like this since I controlled my hypothyroidism.. long story short yup... Af got me!! Off to the next one


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4 years ago • Post starter


Sorry to hear Alex. I hate when our body's confuse us. Good luck this cycle!


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4 years ago


Thank you bug! I won’t be trying anything new this cycle. I’m just gonna let and trust my body do its thing! Weird to believe that fate so many years trying but idk why I just have this faith all of a sudden!
Sending positive thoughts your way hoping things for you going as planned!!


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