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37 years old TTC #1 for years // Never been pregnant

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Hello everyone!
I feel so alone sometimes seeing everyone in here trying for #2, #3 etc and in early ages too while I’m 37YO and never been pregnant even though I’m trying for years! I never saw those two pink lines. Not a chemical, nothing! My body just cannot do it and I feel so defeated...
I really would like to see if there is anyone in same situation as mine. I made a similar post a while ago but all ladies close to my age had at least one child or been pregnant before.. I don’t wanna be rude and I understand that going through a chemical or a miscarriage must be the worst thing in the world when ttc but for me I don’t even know if my body is a even able to get pregnant, you know? And I’m not trying for 1-2 years too... I’m trying for almost 9 years.....
Anyone on the same boat? If you’re here... I would love to hear how you cope..


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Alex, happy new year! I started spotting today which means AF is probably knocking only door. I said I want going to be upset but I am. I found out someone I know is pregnant today. It never gets easy. Skipped my medications this week. Just feeling down today.

Rose's good luck and hope that works for you. I have tried everything. So far nuttin has worked for me.


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4 years ago


Roses thanks! I did searched it on google and indeed found many success stories. Something that concerned me though is that I also read somewhere along the search that it may have the opposite results for some women. Anyways for now m going to try the Cq10 when my order decides to arrive and I’ll keep in mind to research it more if this too won’t do the trick! I really hope tho you’ll be having results with it. Keep us updated

Oh bug I’m so sorry! It never gets easier even if you say yourself you’ll be ok. Last cycle had the same.. af came same day I heard someone I know is pregnant. It really broke me. I stayed for hours in the bathroom floor crying and hubby was so helpless.
I know that there’s nothing to say at this point to make you feel better really. Just know that we’re here for you if you need someone to talk! In few days you’ll be feeling better. You got this girl. We only get stronger

AFM I’m 4dpo and I really cannot understand something that is happening to me almost each cycle. Around 3-4 dpo I’m getting pinches and some dull cramps.. it’s like more O pains rather period pains. I know it cannot be anything pregnancy related first of because I have it so often and never been pregnant and secondly even if I was pregnant it’s too early for symptoms. I tried to google it but i only get results for “early pregnancy signs at 3-4 dpo” which I know is not the case. I asked once in the forum but never got an answer if anyone knows. Does any of you had the same? Do you know why my body gives me those pains?
Some may say that is post ovulation pains but I’m not having them at 1 or 2 dpo.. then sometimes stops for 5-6 dpo and then my normal pre af cramps are starting at around 8-9 dpo... I’m so confused!


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4 years ago • Post starter


Well she came earlier than normal not sure when I o'd my LP keeps changing which is not normal if I o'd 2 days earlier than I thought then it would put my LP at the range I am use too. It's all confusing since I didnt temp all cycle. This past cycle was only 27 days. In to the next been 3xtra emotional today my nephew turned 18 years old today and I have yet to have a kid or positive test. I'm trying to tap into my medications and trust my body but dang it always stings when she comes.


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4 years ago


I’m so sorry bug! That totally sucks..
I’ve noticed that when I’m not charting at the end give me more anxiety cuz I’m so unsure of what happened so I now again always charting just to keep a peace of mind! I don’t know if this is the case for you too!
I’m really praying that this journey will soon end for all of us who are trying for so long.. it’s so unfair..


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4 years ago • Post starter


Hello ladies!
I’m 6dpo today and yesterday all day I had very noticeable cramping. Like I was seriously wondering what is going on. I don’t understand why I’m cramping so early and it’s not the first time! Am I this sensitive? I don’t have hopes ‘cause of this but I still wonder... you know? Anyways.. I’m planning to test around 8 dpo and later if I can make it! Nothing unusual except the cramping so not so optimistic!


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4 years ago • Post starter


Alex,
I hope this cycle brings you your miracle. I pray God blesses you with a little one, what your heart desires.

I am only CD 4. I changed my start day to Saturday instead of Friday due to it being spotting. Strangest thing happen on Saturday morning, It was black instead of the usual bright red. It gave me some hope but later that day and all day sunday she was tearing her ugly head. She has calmed down now and is very light. Back to full time temping and going to do OPKs again. I just need to know what is going on in side. The chiropractor told me getting adjusted might make my length change.i went from 31 fo 28 day cycle. I truly hoping getting adjusted helps everything.

73 days till my wedding.
2.5 cycles(84 days) to go before the specialist appt.
Praying God blesses us with a miracle before the appointment.


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4 years ago


Bug so glad to see you! Hope you’re feeling better. I always believed that for us whom are ttc is better to have shorter cycles so we can try sooner if we won’t make it! I have 25 days cycle and I’m so thankful because I won’t have to wait for so long before I try again!
Hopefully you’ll be having your bfp before everything! I really wish this journey to end this cycle for you and you’ll have your two pink lines!
AFM I’m 8DPO today with nothing out of ordinary and with one bfn this morning. I’m already not very hopeful for this cycle and I believe it will be easy for me when Af shows.. I’m not feeling as emotional as previous cycles. Let’s hope it will stay this way when she arrives!


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4 years ago • Post starter


10dpo today and I had a weird Wondfo. Noticed again a shadow before dipping and someone in comments told me that there’s always a shadow before dipping and it’s where the antibodies are. I feel I see something but again I saw same line last cycle and nothing.. I don’t like getting my hopes up. It makes me obsessive.. Dang it...


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4 years ago • Post starter


I rarely see lines but I see something too. Test in a couple of days. Hoping this is your miracle.


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4 years ago


Yea this usually ends with me crying in the bathtub lol I’m praying so hard that for once this will end up real


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