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I feel ya girl. My husband said the other day 5hat maybe God knew what he was doing and that maybe we didnt need another baby right now. I've been having some issues with my daughter sleeping and I'm getting really frustrated. But that doesnt mean I cant handle another. I'm CD 12 of a clomid cycle and we havent baby danced any this week. I ovulated on CD 14 last month so I'm not too hopeful. The next time we bd it will be full of dead, no good sperm, so our odds suck already. I'm just freaking done with it all. I go through all thos crap with taking clomid, because it really does a number on me emotionally, and he cant even make sure he doesnt fall asleep in his chair.

Mill- Yes! It’s the worst! He’s been a good sport this month, but now we’re down to the wire and he just doesn’t feel line it. Worse yet- he told me he would rather play his game (Mario kart).... seriously?? I only need about 5 minutes of you time!
I really hope you get some BDing in in these next couple days! Just remember- you only need 1 strong swimmer!
for all of us!!

I've just come to not expect much. It took us 4 freaking years to have our daughter. I'm 35 now, so things wont get easier. I just want him to step up. So what you gotta little cough and dont feel good. My ovaries feel like their going to explode and I might as well have a fever with the hot flashes. Last month we timed it pretty perfect and no baby, so this month is probably over before it begins. Cause now I'm being a bitch and I dont want anything to do with him ???????????? ... He done gone a made me mad....

Mill- Ugh! Man flu is the worst! Taking care of a 2 year old is one thing, but a man child is so hard! Shoot- mine gets a cold and he calls out of work and stays in bed for literally 2 days. I can have the stomach flu and he will come home and ask what’s for dinner, then ask if I made it to the store and if his favorite pants are clean

So nervous!

My cycles have been crazy lately and it seems like this is a longer month for me because I'm now on Day 30 of my cycle and I feel like last night when I wiped it MIGHT have been a very light pink....hoping I'm not crazy. Everything else is normal. No full breasts or anything like that. Mildly nauseous this morning from running in to work and eating right away....

Send baby dust please! It's my bday today and all I want is for this to be real!

PunkRawk- lots and lots of and Happy Birthday!! I’ll be watching and hoping for you

Tested yesterday with a digital opk and easy at home and negative. Tested last night and digital was positive and the other was negative. Tested again this morning with cheapie and it's still not positive? What the heck. I think this month is a bust either way. I'm seeing no ewcm like last month. Maybe taking 2 clomid cycles back to back isnt the way to go for me? We bd yesterday but it was the first time since Sunday so all those swimmers are trash. Very achy and crampy today, but I just dont know? We will prolly do it today, but again, I feel so out that I wont even pee on a stick this month.

@mill and @Kahg I am sorry to hear about your DH. And I know exactly how it feels. It s the worst when the only think they have to do is ejaculate and even that, they can t accomplish. I am so sorry and I pray that they will come along. This journey is so hard and we just want some support.

@Alex and @Shay y all are so brave. Thank you for the support. All my fingers crossed for you that you will get those . Everyone else as well .

AFM crazy cramps yesterday hopefully they were ov pains. We will know in a couple of weeks. Also if they were, they were very very early this cycle. No fertility pills . Had blood tests, transvaginal ultrasound, hsg and upped meds.

I’m now 4dpo (I think- could be 3dpo) and getting the itch to POAS! Trying to hold out until 10dpo- next Saturday.
Where are you all at in your cycles? Anyone close to Test Zone? Anyone feeling like it might be their month?
I’m so unsure about this cycle for me! Crossing my fingers, but who knows!

We bd'd once on Friday. Think I o'd either Friday or Saturday. I won't be itching to pee on anything this month. This whole cycle has seemed to be off. I got a positive on a digital opk but the other ones never went positive. Never had any ewcm and my cervix was closed? So not hopeful at all