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From my understanding, if you want to O earlier, take it earlier? I've tried it all. 5-9, 3-7,2-6 different things work for different people. If one scenario doesnt work the first time. Change it up? It really isnt a rule you have to take it at a specific time. For those who have problems with eggs maturing usually do 5-9. I've also read that if you want more eggs to take it earlier like 2-6? Just stuff to think about.

13 dpo and I'm out ???? I hate wanting a baby so bad

@mill sorry. I know how you feel. I already feel out and im only 8dpo. I will be 36 in a week and no kids. I wish I didnt want them so bad. I hate that I do. I cant turn it off and every flipping day I found out someone i know is pregnant. It started to wear on your mind.

@bug I totally get what you mean. You still never know what will happen this cycle until it is over. Try to stay positive!!

@mil I am sorry you are out. Did AF show? I know your time is coming soon!!!

AFM: sorry for being MIA the last couple of days. Been busy with family. I am in the states so we had a thanksgiving this last week.
Still waiting to confirm O. Didn’t get to take my temp this morning because the batteries on my thermometer died!!! We have been bding every day to make sure we don’t miss it. Hoping this is our cycle. If not my doctor will only do one more with Clomid before referring me to a fertility specialist. We really can’t afford to have to go to a specialist so really hoping this is it!! Had a lot of cramping and back ache today. Hoping that means O!! We bded this morning since I am visiting my cousin for the evening. I should be home early enough tomorrow to bd again just to make sure we don’t miss it!!
I have had so many people I know announce their pregnancies. At least five to ten different people in the last couple of weeks. It is so hard to want and hope and see nothing!!! Our time will come though. Trying to stay positive and keep trying!!

We got this ladies!!!

Yea, af showed her face Saturday. Which means I ovulated super early. Like cd 13. Anyway, gonna start 50 mg of clomid tomorrow on CD 3. While there is always a little hope of it happening, the fact that I've taken it multiple times before my daughter and never got a BFP doesnt give me High Hope's. But, ya never know. If I do get preggo this cycle there is lots of time to get a BFP by Christmas. That would be awesome.

@shay where do you live? Canda?
Hoping you got your thermometer fixed and O is here soon for you.

@mill sorry she came. You never know maybe your body will react differently to it this time around especially with taking the Ublinquo.

As for me, my temps keep rising. I was constipated yesterday which normally I started having signs of very loose. TMI.
I have two digits I. My house but dont wanna waste them so I might get me some pink line test if tomorrws temp goes up still. My RHR has been going up down up down.

On the wedding front I picked up my wedding dress yesterday and I had order a size smaller well I was able to have it zip up!!! Since I am a big woman if I am pregnant this cycle I'm sure it will not hurt to lose some weight while preggers.

Testing if things dont start showing pre AF symptoms soon.

@mil I am sorry AF showed. I am sure things will be better this next time around!

@bug oh it is always so exciting to pick up your dress!! I am so excited for you. And I live in the US in California.

AFM: I believe O happened yesterday! My temps jumped from 97.7 to 98.09 so a good jump for sure. We have bded the last 6 days in a row haha and I am still going to make sure we bd at least today as well. I am making sure we don’t miss our window this month. I am always secretly hoping for twins haha but I will just be happy with one too!!!

Good luck ladies!!!

Hello ladies. I am Cycle day 13 today, haven't O'd yet. Going to try to BD tonight, tomorrow and Wednesday in hopes we catch it. Good luck.

@shay yay for O. I want twins too because it's been so hard getting pregnant that i just want my two all at once. Plus, the fiance says we may not try again once we have the first one.

@HDkelly fingers crossed you catch the egg.

Well, seeing a stark blank test is never easy. I decided to test this morning because my temps are still high but BFN. I am only 11dpo but AF comes around 12 and 13 dpo. It's so disappointing. I wish I could switch it off and not care anymore. And just focus on the wedding but I cant I want to be a mother so freaking bad. I feel like God is punishing me by not allowing me to become pregnant. I keep thinking to myself ita bc I did something wrong at some pejloint in my life. I hate feeling this way.

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@hdkelly yay to waiting for O!! Hope you catch that egg!!

@bug I totally get what you mean. Like what did I do to make it so hard for me to get pregnant? But we didn’t do anything. It is unfortunately just how life works. You got this!!

AFM: I am saying I am 2dpo today. With the temp rise yesterday and even higher today I am pretty sure O happened on Sunday! And I don’t know how we could have timed it better!!! We bded literally every day for almost a week and all of it was in my fertile window. I am going to be very disappointed if it doesn’t happen this time. I mean come on could our timing be better?