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Sorry i’ve been MIA lately. Lots going on with kids starting school this week, first colds of the season and trying to figure out whether I am going to start that part-time school program I want to do. I also got bad news from my best friend who just lost her mom which makes me so sad. I’ve known her since I was 5 and am very close to her family. It seems like every time I lose a baby, someone I love dies too ????.
Gamer and russian congrats on the BFPs
@Alex I’ve been thinking of you. I’m sorry it’s been such a rough road for you so far and i wish there was something I could say to help with the disappointment you felt this month. I’m still convinced you may have a wonderful surprise sometime soon. Sending big hugs your way.
@scuba thinking of you too
@shay hope AF stays away. If you think your vaginal temp is the accurate one, do you think it’s possible you only ovulated on CD 28?
@Lalou I hope you O soon and get a BFP in a few weeks!

Agatch I have wondered if maybe I O’ed later than I thought maybe like cycle day 24 when I had a slight dip again and then a rise. It is so hard to know for sure though. I spotted twice this cycle which I had hoped was ovulation and implantation. But now I am wondering if the first was an attempted O and the second was the actual O. I guess time will only tell. It is all so frustrating. There is still no sign of AF. I had some cramping this morning but now nothing. No spotting, cervix is high again though soft, and cm is super sticky/clumpy. None of this is normal for me. Ugh I hate it!!!

@Gamer congratulations!
Afm: i just hit the second trimester and i am feeling so happy! ????
Morning sickness and nausea has near enough disappeared!

Thanks ladies!!
Alex it is so good to hear from you!! Miss you girl!! We all understand needing to step back.

Sam glad everything is going so well!!

AFM: I decided that I need to stick with my oral temps since those are the ones I started with. By sticking with them though, I no longer have an O day. Looks like my temps are just fluctuating wherever they want. This seems more likely for me since I haven’t O’ed two months in a row for as long as I can remember. So whenever af shows up I will start temping vaginally for more consistent temps. I will be setting up an appointment with my doctor soon to see what is going on.

Good luck ladies!! I hope the best for all of you. Looks like I am just waiting around another month.

@Shay I hope you do (or did) O this cycle but otherwise I really hope your doctor will be willing to help you look for answers this time
@kait sorry AF is coming but I have my fingers crossed the the clomid works for you right away!
@Alex thanks babe! How are you feeling?
I haven't really heard more from my doctor because I was waiting for my hormone levels to go down to 0 which just happened (I was testing it down with HPT). I went to get a blood test on Friday to confirm it was back to normal and my doctor should call me tomorrow to let me know what the result is. I'm planning to talk to her about it then. My Hcg went back down as fast as they did last time so I feel like everything is fine and will be back to normal. I'd be ok waiting 2 or 3 cycles to make sure but certainly not 6 like she advised! I know chances are often pretty good the first few cycles after a MC though (I got pregnant again on the second cycle after my first MC) so it sucks to even have to wait 2 or 3 cycles to try again but on the other hand, there is a chance we will be moving overseas next July so it may be a good thing to wait so I don't have a June or July due date (even August may be hard). I should know if we are moving in the next 6 to 8 weeks so I think we won't try again until we know more and that way we can make sure there is no issue following the potential partial molar pregnancy. My guess is we'll be trying again in December.

Shay This is so unfair for you! Do you consider talk with your doctor about helping you with your ovulation by medication?

Kait I do too hope clomid will help you right away. I heard there is some unpleasant side effects so I really hope it won’t take long!

Agatch sounds like you’re about to have some new changes in your routine if you start the new job and with the moving! Hopefully this will keep you pleasantly busy till you get back trying!
I’m feeling better thank you but I still feel so defeated. I really thought that I would be a mom one day. At this point I threw all my opks and I stopped charting. I’m not planning to ttc anymore. We’ll just going to enjoy each other and if a baby will come out of it, it will be more than welcome. Hubby still taking the ginseng and maca though since we bought it. Of course I still will wonder each cycle if AF will come.. once a TTCer always a TTCer lol but I’m done with counting and trying and testing... everything happens for a reason! I’ll be around as I said since I got used of this site and I really want to see y’alls bfps

Agatch I am glad that your numbers are back to normal so you can really talk to your doctor.

Alex it is great that you are just going to enjoy each other. I know it is hard to accept but I still believe a little one will be part of your family soon.

AFM: I just don’t know what to think anymore. I was sure that yesterday AF was going to start as I was having all the normal signs, cramping and slightly tender chest. But nothing, not even spotting. Then I wake up with an oral temp pretty normal for me especially since I slept with my mouth open again. But I am still doing both oral and vaginal just so I can get in the habit for next month. Well that temp skyrocketed up!! Like a while half degree!! It is just so odd!! I want my body to just decide what it is going to do!! Between my two apps, one for oral and one for vaginal, I have either no O day or an O day later than I thought I would. Ugh I just don’t know what to think or do. If I go by my vaginal temps I am only 7dpo. Ugh this just sucks!!

Good luck ladies!! I want to see some more positives soon!!!

@mill what fertility stuff?
@agatxh stay brave

AFM trying to read and msg from my car while in lunch. I have been unsuçessful looking for a job.

Hoping for maybe ovulation on my own this cycle or Clomid. I did say tiny amount of ewcm 2 DAYS AGO. will stop by again soon.

@Alex the most common side effect seems to be hot flashes so at least it isn't the dead of summer here anymore. They warned me about the increased possibility for multiples too. I got my perscription today and I'll start taking them Friday. I'm going back and forth between feeling excited and being annoyed that this has gotten to this point lol I hope you're able to take some time to relax and take care of yourself and your hubby. You deserve it!

i've been so tired lately I need some sleep lol but I just cant sleep