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@hdkelly sorry to hear about your loss. I'm still trying to conceive again following a loss at 7w1d in March. We haven't gotten another BFP so far. I don't think there is anything special you are supposed to do after a loss other than waiting until you are ready to try again. Good luck and i hope you get a BFP this cycle!

@lissa I’ve heard it’s harder to get pregnant if you O early but not impossible. Something about the egg not being as healthy or something like that.
@kelly how far along were you when you miscarried? I have heard the further along you were, the longer it takes to bounce back. However, I’ve also heard many cases where people get pregnant and go full term the cycle after a MC

Momma, I found out at my 10 week appointment. My baby no longer had a heartbeat and was measuring at 8 weeks 4 days. The doc called it a missed miscarriage. The baby had a strong heartbeat and the HCG was fine at 8 weeks, but then something happened. I didn't have any pain, cramps or bleeding. I miscarried ~75% at home June 1st at using Cytotec, then had a D&C on June 13th for the remainder.

Ladies, been off and on back and forth. Say I'm going to give up but I just can't. Today is CD1 of my 13th cycle. I made the call to the doctors off lice and decided to try a medicated cycle with Clomid 50mg. I start them on Friday. Was really bummed out I didnt become pregnant but I know it will happen.

I've missed chatting with you ladies. I was going to delete my account but decided I needed the community.

Wishing all get their BFPs. This cycle will lead to BFP and a mid- April Due Date for me. Going to keep saying that.

@kelly sorry to hear that. I feel like all the same people are back on here that started the original chat in December. Kinda sad. But I still have hopes for all of us!
@bug keep up the positive attitude! Glad to see you back. Baby dust!!!

@momma, thanks, it's so hard. This month, I have found out 3 people I know is pregnant and I keep thinking will it ever be me. But I must say, it will be me instead. I am also truly focusing on losing weight, playing with my new pup, Salty Sarge, and finish ming up my second Grad class. The pup and school have helped some with taking my mind off TTCing.

Welcome back Bug! Happy to have you back in the group. Good luck with the clomid. I did one round of femera and it didn't really do anything for me. Honestly i think it was a waste of money because the monitoring was so expensive and we didn't get a BFP out of it. I don't see any advantages for us in doing medicated versus non-medicated. I'd rather save the money towards IVF. But i'm hoping clomid will do the trick for you! Did they give you a script for progesterone for after O?

Well i got my peak (LH) reading this morning. It was high (estrogen) last night and now peak this morning so i'm thinking O will happen tonight or tomorrow. We BD last night and will again tonight and hopefully catch an eggie! If i O tomorrow it won't be super early -- CD13 which i hope is still OK. I normally O CD14-18. I guess maybe the metformin and the vitex are working to speed things up a little bit. I'm glad i was checking CM and CP or i might have missed the surge.

@lissa thanks, no however my doctor was out of the office and if she wants me to come in for CD21 labs I wont know till she reviews and calls me back. They are not monitoring me.

I found out my friend in south Africa is due with baby two this morning. In January and in may she was saying they were trying but nothing was happening apparently she was pregnant then. It stings to hear others getting pregnant but I know my time will come.

Good luck lissa! Hope your BFP comes before the IVF.

My RE wouldn't prescribe femera without the monitoring. So i told them to go take a hike and i'll come back if we decide we want IVF. I'm glad they will check your P again on CD21. Did they give you an HCG trigger to induce ovulation or are you just going to try to monitor O on your own? Don't worry everyone around me is pregnant too. And many of them have due dates around when my baby would have been born (November) had I not lost it. It is so depressing.

10dpo today and a bfn. Breasts are still very sore. I’ve never had breast soreness for 5 days straight before. My RHR has taken quite a dip in the last two days, so I feel like my body is gearing up for AF. My temp hasn’t moved in three days. Going to just save my last hpt unless AF doesn’t show up by Saturday.