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Sorry AF came kgirl! Good luck next cycle!

Welcome back Scuba. Sorry you didn't get better news! I hope the dye tests shows something that can be fixed. I've heard a lot of people get pregnant the month following those because it helps clear the tube, so to speak!

AFM, still not getting much on tests. I am in a bit better mood today, just super tired. My 4 year old randomly asked me if there was a baby in my belly. When I was pregnant with her, her brother said the same thing about a week before I found out. Let's hope she has the same ESP her brother did Here's the test I took this morning.

Hi ladies...welcome to all the new persons in the group.
@ Anna that bump is too cute. No worries about size. You will be thankful when you’re postpartum that you gained modestly.
@Scuba welcome back darling. I wish the news was more positive. I still believe in miracles and God blessing us when doctors/man say it’s impossible. I’ll keep you in my prayers.
@Jessica
AFM I had a doctors visit and pregnancy was confirmed. I go back in 4 weeks for dating and first trimester ultrasound. I feel good. No symptoms still.
to all TTC.

CD 1 for me... Scuba, I truly think it may just take some time, but I think you will have another baby. Dont give up tracking all together. Just watch the signs your body shows you. And maybe use an opk? Having a Feb baby wasnt my dream due date anyway! I want a spring or fall baby! Haha, but I'll take what I get!

@Millbarnet sorry AF showed up. March is spring so for this cycle!
@Jessica i’ve heard so many story of moms finding out they were pregnant when their toddlers asked about it. Little ones are so intuitive
@scuba good to hear from you but i’m Really sorry about what the doctor told you. Do you think you could benefit from a second opinion? I’ve seen so many people getting a very pessimistic diagnosis and getting a completely different story from a second opinion. Don’t give up on your body yet. It can do amazing things!!
@Bimini that’s exciting. Hope things contouring go smoothly for you
@Alex I usually O on CD 15. My temp was pretty high this morning and my opk were negative last night and this morning so the positive one I got yesterday afternoon may have been right at the end of my surge (I used to get a positive opk for about 12 hours between 24 and 12 hours before O). I guess we’ll see if temps stays high but I actually hope I didn’t O yesterday because if that’s the case my chances for this month are very low. We were only able to BD this morning but not yesterday (DH came home late and was exhausted ) and I was still with AF the days before that. So I’m hoping I didn’t actually O and I will get another LH surge in a few days.

Burkette Good luck! Go catch that egg!!!

Scuba Hi! Glad to see you again, I was thinking about how you doing since I remember you weren’t on your best mood last time I’ve seen you in here. I’m so sorry doctor gave you such bad news but I don’t quite believe that IVF is your only option. I don’t know how things work were you live but here in Greece doctors are known for wanting to have more money so they usually pushing you to the most expensive “treatment” in order to gain more. I hope this is not the case for you but I heard so many times that a second opinions as Agatch said, is frequently totally different. Please consider it. You already had one child and I can not believe that your body cannot do it again! I’m sure you’ll be pregnant naturally babe! Keep trying and please think about taking another opinion!!

Kgirl and millbarnett CD1 is always the worst in so many ways! Stay strong ladies. Take some time off let your body do its thing and get back to business

Jessica Those kinds of little signs are always so interesting! I remember when Anna got her bfp, days before she had a mini pepper inside her ball pepper!! I really really wish your little ones prediction to come true! Can’t wait!

Bimini so glad everything is well with you and your pregnancy. No symptoms is always a good thing as I heard so many times how awful first trimester can be! Hope you’ll have an easy pregnancy!!

Agatch how frustrating. A positive opk one day after period. Really hope this wasn’t a real one and you’ll get your surge in the next few days! If not hopefully your egg was a super healthy one and stayed in there for long enough for the little swimmers to reach!! Fingers crossed girl!!

AFM Not much here 2dpo and now just waiting. I think I won’t test till I miss my period since is too soon for hubbys supplements to have kicked in. But of course I’m not promising anything since I know I usually get crazy around 10dpo lol we’ll see...

Thank you everyone xxx I did say to my hubby if he thought she said that just so I'd pay for ivf but he said she wouldn't do that. Then I looked up my levels and age was right. I'm 2.56 which says low. But we will just keep trying naturally and hopefully it will happen xx

Scuba I’m sure it will happen hun! Keep trying and don’t lose hope. I’m very positive that you’ll be getting a bfp soon!

Testing is driving me nuts! Can I just get a clear negative? Based off of my last 2 cycles I started spotting on 13 dpo and got AF the next day. No real sign of her yet but no super positive test!

@Jessica fingers crossed you are not out yet.

@Agatch plz bd you can still catch it.

@scuba welcome back. I really do not trust Dr. That always recommend only 1 set of action. Plz ask for a 2nd opinion and ask to see a reproductive specialist. Btw they say the same abt me and I ended up actually conceiving naturally. I am also suprised that your Doc did not even suggested some fertility meds like Clomid or something. I don t think s/he cares enough. Plz see another doc. What about iui even? I heard that it is also cheaper than ivf. Do not lose faith mama.

Praying for everyone to stay positive. It is hard but worth it.

@CD43 day#3 taking Provera to bring AF. No signs yet. Boobies hurt a lot bc baby is almost weaned off during the day but bursing so much at night time. I am so exhausted from packing but I really cannot wait to start a new adventure. My SIL still has not told us officially that she is expecting. She is in her 4th month now. But then again on my side of the family, people like to hide their prgnancies. So weird I know. Thank again for the congratulations and welcome to all the newbies.

@Jessica those days of no clear negatives but no sign of AF are really hard! It seems like a decade has to go by before you can find out what’s going on for sure. Hang in there!
@Lalou good luck with packing. Moving is so much work especially with a little one!
@Scuba there is a lot of information out there that you can read to understand your test results and decide for yourself. I really think it will happen for you. Don’t give up!
@Alex I guess I am 2 dpo too which I still find hard to believe but my temp was high again this morning and i’m definitely feeling like I’m more in the second part of my cycle mood wise... I’m still using opk daily just in case but I wouldn’t be surprised if AF shows up early too. Seems like i’m going to have a very short cycle.