How do you cope?
I'm 11 dpo bfn on frer this morning. This is my 3rd failed IUI. How do you all cope with the disappointment cycle after cycle? I need ideas on how to cope with feeling let down over and over. I've been trying for 5 years maybe it's just time to let it go.
6 Replies • 3 months ago
Just had my second failed IUI so I kinda get what you are going through. We had perfect conditions timing was amazing, levels were perfect, I had 4 follicles, husband count was good. I just dont get it. I dont get why my body isn't working. It's frustrating and I'm getting so tired. I dont want to give up, that's not really am option right now, I dont think I've hit that level of giving up yet. At this point I've just come to expect a negative. I'm sorry you are going through this.
3 months ago
Ugh it's so frustrating! We have had 2 perfect IUIs, one the timing wad a bit off. I want to give up but I can't, I want one more baby so bad! On to the next cycle...I hope you get your bfp on #3! That's the average cycle to concieve on so you've got a good shot! I only have one tube so that makes it harder for me too, i just need to be patient.
3 months ago • Post starter
Same to you girl if you need anything let me know!! Its nice to have someone that's in the same boat and understand how I'm feeling. Get so tired of ppl that have never been through it saying be positive or just be patient it will happen. Like yes I know all those things but sometimes I dont want to be positive and I just want to be in a shitty mood or vent my fears that this might not happen. Lol good luck hope you get your bfp!!
3 months ago
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