Thanks ladies. Honestly i'm just mad that he lead me on with the ttc thing. He has been seeing her for ages but said oh you wanted another baby and I didn't want to upset you so thought it would be ok if we co parent raised the kids. I was still going to come to the birth. What an asshole. He and I have had some serious rough patches in the past and I once left him and told him to grow up or lose us. He seemed to really come right and we had been been seemingly happy for a long time. Turns out he was happy with someone else. Deep down i've prepared for it not working out forever because of the rough patches. I'm surprised by how ok i'm feeling. If anything I'm desperate to look after myself and become so happy he regrets letting us go lol. I'm never ever taking him back no matter what. I know the hoe he has been seeing. She will chew him up and spit him out. She doesn't have children so her body is amazing and she is younger but he is a fool to think she is a better option than his wife and kids. I pity him really. He is going to end up lonely and i'll likely end up meeting someone lovely in a few years. I love my husband but most definitely feel that our love changed to become more platonic over time. At least I was loyal ffs. I love my kids and don't regret making them but how could he allow us to ttc and be planning to leave. It feels really evil and cruel to me!
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@And good luck!! Any update on the spotting?
As for me, .20 temp drop today at 9dpo, getting pre AF cramps which is due Monday and still really upset that husband is away all next cycle ???? I tried to convince myself I could see something on today’s test but I know it’s just a shadow from me holding it every way and in every light. I was so tempted to use a FRER but I know AF is on her way - the bitch
9 months ago
@beck I always said there’s no way I could be a military wife. You are much stronger than I am. I’m sorry this has been a hard and lonely road for you.
@Matarik I am so sorry you are going through such a horrible ordeal. After my experience, I’m glad you found out now. My ex BEGGED me for a child. I finally gave in, and that’s where my three year old came from. I found out he was cheating when she was only 3 months old. Guys are snakes. I hope you can find peace of mind and get some better rest. Today is a new day!
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